"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Are we really living in the reality we believe?

Who Dares Win

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Have you ever wonder if we're not in the reality we believe we are?

I'm not talking about a matrix style simulation altough some things like dejavus are clearly interesting and the official explanation is not really that convincing.

I often see similarities between our lifes and softwares where a programmer can create an event that force the software to act in a certain way.

Think of the macro environment in terms of politics and economics working as a operation system update which necessarily lead secondary software to evolve themselves.

Also phenomenons which are hard to explain as the fibonacci sequences on organic growth or mathematical formulas that basically code what we find attractive and what is not.

Wheter we observe a flower or the proportions of a statue we can see precise numbers.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Indeed, if one has the time to ruminate in these subjects it can get kinda weird. Our whole universe could be a speck of dirt in the grander scheme. I trouble myself with more mundane issues since it’s a crazy maker. Now if I could plug my head in and become a grand master at shotokan that would be cool…heh
 

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Our reality can only ever be what we experience.

It does not matter if it is code based; our conscious experience is the same.
 

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Have you ever wonder if we're not in the reality we believe we are?

I'm not talking about a matrix style simulation altough some things like dejavus are clearly interesting and the official explanation is not really that convincing.

I often see similarities between our lifes and softwares where a programmer can create an event that force the software to act in a certain way.

Think of the macro environment in terms of politics and economics working as a operation system update which necessarily lead secondary software to evolve themselves.

Also phenomenons which are hard to explain as the fibonacci sequences on organic growth or mathematical formulas that basically code what we find attractive and what is not.

Wheter we observe a flower or the proportions of a statue we can see precise numbers.
No. It's all an illusion. We're all being watched like in The Truman show.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Reality is what you see before you interpret anything. What most people call truth these days is for the most part their interpretation of reality.

Deja Vu is more likely to be a result of how we process memories of similar past events. Memory is not as tell reliable as most people feel comfortable believing.

Mathematics is a system invented from our observations of reality, not the other way around. The plants were always this way, then we came along and invented a simple way to express what we saw.
 
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