"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Are we really living in the reality we believe?

Who Dares Win

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Have you ever wonder if we're not in the reality we believe we are?

I'm not talking about a matrix style simulation altough some things like dejavus are clearly interesting and the official explanation is not really that convincing.

I often see similarities between our lifes and softwares where a programmer can create an event that force the software to act in a certain way.

Think of the macro environment in terms of politics and economics working as a operation system update which necessarily lead secondary software to evolve themselves.

Also phenomenons which are hard to explain as the fibonacci sequences on organic growth or mathematical formulas that basically code what we find attractive and what is not.

Wheter we observe a flower or the proportions of a statue we can see precise numbers.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Indeed, if one has the time to ruminate in these subjects it can get kinda weird. Our whole universe could be a speck of dirt in the grander scheme. I trouble myself with more mundane issues since it’s a crazy maker. Now if I could plug my head in and become a grand master at shotokan that would be cool…heh
 

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Our reality can only ever be what we experience.

It does not matter if it is code based; our conscious experience is the same.
 

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Have you ever wonder if we're not in the reality we believe we are?

I'm not talking about a matrix style simulation altough some things like dejavus are clearly interesting and the official explanation is not really that convincing.

I often see similarities between our lifes and softwares where a programmer can create an event that force the software to act in a certain way.

Think of the macro environment in terms of politics and economics working as a operation system update which necessarily lead secondary software to evolve themselves.

Also phenomenons which are hard to explain as the fibonacci sequences on organic growth or mathematical formulas that basically code what we find attractive and what is not.

Wheter we observe a flower or the proportions of a statue we can see precise numbers.
No. It's all an illusion. We're all being watched like in The Truman show.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Reality is what you see before you interpret anything. What most people call truth these days is for the most part their interpretation of reality.

Deja Vu is more likely to be a result of how we process memories of similar past events. Memory is not as tell reliable as most people feel comfortable believing.

Mathematics is a system invented from our observations of reality, not the other way around. The plants were always this way, then we came along and invented a simple way to express what we saw.
 
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