"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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are we Just friends

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clueless61

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K well, been chillin with this girl now for a lil while and we aint datin or anything but whenever it's just me and her she's always huggin and actin like she's my girl, which doesn't bother me but i just dont know where we are, like i would like to at least know anyways, she's been callin and talkin to me all the time on the phone and last night she called to just say Hey and to talk and to "check in" with me to tell me where she is and how she's doin, So, if we're JUST friends why would she need to "check in". whats that mean?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sounds like she's interested to me. If I wasn't sure about a girl, I would try and step it up a bit, see how she responds.
 
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if you together all the time

and you are just hugging and not kissing

sounds like you are in the friends zone to me

The Bad Ass Canadian is right.

kiss her and find out.



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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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