"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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are we Just friends

clueless61

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K well, been chillin with this girl now for a lil while and we aint datin or anything but whenever it's just me and her she's always huggin and actin like she's my girl, which doesn't bother me but i just dont know where we are, like i would like to at least know anyways, she's been callin and talkin to me all the time on the phone and last night she called to just say Hey and to talk and to "check in" with me to tell me where she is and how she's doin, So, if we're JUST friends why would she need to "check in". whats that mean?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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biker_gixxer

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Sounds like she's interested to me. If I wasn't sure about a girl, I would try and step it up a bit, see how she responds.
 

Lost In Translation

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if you together all the time

and you are just hugging and not kissing

sounds like you are in the friends zone to me

The Bad Ass Canadian is right.

kiss her and find out.



Lost In Translation
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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