"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lamia

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ok I've known this chick for rough a year now. We liked each other for about 2 months. She was the first girl i kissed and i was hers. Until she shyed off and ditched me completely. Kept giving me the friend then bf then friend talk again
to make a long story short we were on and off. And whenever we made progress she acted the same way. Finally it wasn't until after a long time of ignoring her she starts making moves like texting me constantly, but she never acknowledges me in school. I'm planning of continiuing to ignore her but the reason why I bring this up because I wanted to know if this has happened to you and what did you do.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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AHA exact same thing happened to me in HS. Ignore it man - That shiet never went anywhere for me. She tried contacting me CONSTANTLY, but I did the hardcore ignore and stopped talking to her for a couple years lol.
 
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I do the same thing some times. IMO, it has to do with having your ego stroked but not having the social pressure of being seen with that person. You want to feel loved, but you don't want others to know. That's just me though. She could be different.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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well not texting but i had this one girl keep emailing me to the point i was annoyed. so i just stopped responding. if your sick of her dont reply to her when she text messages you. if you stop she will mostly stop as well.
 
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