"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Are we friends or WTF

Lamia

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ok I've known this chick for rough a year now. We liked each other for about 2 months. She was the first girl i kissed and i was hers. Until she shyed off and ditched me completely. Kept giving me the friend then bf then friend talk again
to make a long story short we were on and off. And whenever we made progress she acted the same way. Finally it wasn't until after a long time of ignoring her she starts making moves like texting me constantly, but she never acknowledges me in school. I'm planning of continiuing to ignore her but the reason why I bring this up because I wanted to know if this has happened to you and what did you do.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Clockwork

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AHA exact same thing happened to me in HS. Ignore it man - That shiet never went anywhere for me. She tried contacting me CONSTANTLY, but I did the hardcore ignore and stopped talking to her for a couple years lol.
 

Bling

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I do the same thing some times. IMO, it has to do with having your ego stroked but not having the social pressure of being seen with that person. You want to feel loved, but you don't want others to know. That's just me though. She could be different.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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killbill

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well not texting but i had this one girl keep emailing me to the point i was annoyed. so i just stopped responding. if your sick of her dont reply to her when she text messages you. if you stop she will mostly stop as well.
 
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