"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Lamia

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ok I've known this chick for rough a year now. We liked each other for about 2 months. She was the first girl i kissed and i was hers. Until she shyed off and ditched me completely. Kept giving me the friend then bf then friend talk again
to make a long story short we were on and off. And whenever we made progress she acted the same way. Finally it wasn't until after a long time of ignoring her she starts making moves like texting me constantly, but she never acknowledges me in school. I'm planning of continiuing to ignore her but the reason why I bring this up because I wanted to know if this has happened to you and what did you do.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AHA exact same thing happened to me in HS. Ignore it man - That shiet never went anywhere for me. She tried contacting me CONSTANTLY, but I did the hardcore ignore and stopped talking to her for a couple years lol.
 
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I do the same thing some times. IMO, it has to do with having your ego stroked but not having the social pressure of being seen with that person. You want to feel loved, but you don't want others to know. That's just me though. She could be different.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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well not texting but i had this one girl keep emailing me to the point i was annoyed. so i just stopped responding. if your sick of her dont reply to her when she text messages you. if you stop she will mostly stop as well.
 
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