escaleraroyal
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why do girls think it's creepy to cold approach them and ask for their number? I really don't understand this.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Are we creepy?
- Thread starter escaleraroyal
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
MartyMcFly
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I hope you're not just running up to them and asking for their number without building rapport first?
Mantis Toboggan
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It's creepy if you suck as a person.
But you know damn well these girls dream of walking to the coffee shop and "bumping into" the man of their dreams. Girls want to be picked up.
If a girl is telling you that it's creepy, it's because she didnt like the guy.
But you know damn well these girls dream of walking to the coffee shop and "bumping into" the man of their dreams. Girls want to be picked up.
If a girl is telling you that it's creepy, it's because she didnt like the guy.
The difference between creepy or self confident is how you look like and how expensive your clothes are.
Also most of the girls are like kids,when they hear a "impressive" word they find any possible way to make it fit in the line,they like to impress people.
Also most of the girls are like kids,when they hear a "impressive" word they find any possible way to make it fit in the line,they like to impress people.
initiatorhater06
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I hate how *****es have to be so damn paranoid
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
I guess its how you approached them, what did you do or how did you say it, what did you say?
Honestly im not that good at approaching, i hardly ever approach girls, if ever. Girls always initiated talk with me and that opened the door to talk. How were you dressed? what was your style? did you make eye contact atleast before you approached?
Honestly im not that good at approaching, i hardly ever approach girls, if ever. Girls always initiated talk with me and that opened the door to talk. How were you dressed? what was your style? did you make eye contact atleast before you approached?
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
Dont be so mean LOLvatoloco said:Only when you're ugly.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
some times girls are intimidated by average joes with so much confidence , they can only explain it by him being weird. if you dressed liek a goth dude , no mater what your gonnabe creepy , to all but goth girlsIn2theGame said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
No, I'm serious. Nowadays, if you cold approach girls who don't dig you (i.e., they don't find you physically attractive, you are "ugly" to them) you will be labeled a "creeper," etc. Do you think they'd label a high-status, physically-attractive male (like Clooney or Pitt) a creeper for cold approaching them? *shakes Magic 8-Ball* "My sources say no."In2theGame said:Dont be so mean LOLvatoloco said:Only when you're ugly.
That why I only cold approach the ones who smile back.
Atom Smasher
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vatoloco said:That why I only cold approach the ones who smile back.
Failsafe.
Who cares.
Your only concern is success or fail with your approaches and learning from them, so what if you make a few girls feel a bit uncomfortable?! its not going to ruin their day, as a a matter of fact they will just talk about it to their friends in order to show how hot they are which will make them feel good in the end.
read this instead:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155965&highlight=obey+****
Your only concern is success or fail with your approaches and learning from them, so what if you make a few girls feel a bit uncomfortable?! its not going to ruin their day, as a a matter of fact they will just talk about it to their friends in order to show how hot they are which will make them feel good in the end.
read this instead:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155965&highlight=obey+****
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
BlackMack177
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The only difference Between a creep and a hot guy is that one is hoe and the other is not
Edward Cullen is a prime example of this. Imagine Jaba the hutt doing all the sh1t that man gets away with to a chick and see how attractive he is.
Edward Cullen is a prime example of this. Imagine Jaba the hutt doing all the sh1t that man gets away with to a chick and see how attractive he is.
dereklovesugly
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It's all about how you approach. You've got to notice body language well and pick up signs from them. That makes a cold approach alot easier. It also helps of you're at least average looking and not dressed like a turd