Are we all, one way or the other, paying for sex?

[Panashe Hillary]

Blew my budget on a date with a girl last night which got me thinking do we all pay for sex??
When you take a girl out to dinner, you are paying for sex. When you pay for nice gifts for her, you are paying for sex. Any financial transaction you make with the intended result of you getting some is the equivalent of paying for sex.
A guy has two things he can spend on a woman:
• money &
• time
The majority of guys spend both on themselves. Regardless, good venue selection, good clothes, time in the gym, etc. All of this is time spent and money spent chasing p*ssy. You might not be paying the girl directly but you might as well be. You still paid for that Armani suit. You still rented that apartment because of how much better it was for p*ssy, not other facets of your life.

Then there are the costs of going out. Drinks, entrance, taxis, etc. Even if you are not buying drinks for the chicks, its money out of your pocket and lost time while you look for new gash. There are the costs of going out. Drinks, entrance, taxis, etc. Even if you are not buying drinks for the chicks, its money out of your pocket and lost time while you look for new gash.
You are constantly paying for sex. Don't want to present dating as a hoax but all we do is spend our money with the intended goal of getting in women's pants. Am i better off with escorts because you actually get your money's worth, not only in sex, but no emotional attachments???

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Bullshyt. What does a male strippers "pay" for sex?

 

[jaymbrs]

Absolutely.

 

[Murk]

No, because I’m not taking them out to dinners or buying gifts. If anything they pay for my time and sex. Benefit of living alone while being relatively young was that I could make demands, bring me this, pick me up from here I’m drunk, cook for me, bring food and wine. Lol you are obviously doing it wrong mate let your personality lead the interactions not your wallet.

 

[wifehunter]

No

 

[mrgoodstuff]

No, because I’m not taking them out to dinners or buying gifts. If anything they pay for my time and sex. Benefit of living alone while being relatively young was that I could make demands, bring me this, pick me up from here I’m drunk, cook for me, bring food and wine. Lol you are obviously doing it wrong mate let your personality lead the interactions not your wallet.

A man should never lead with his wallet.

 

[logicallefty]

Married blue pill men absolutely pay for sex, and they pay dearly.

Guys who only date/spin plates, or even engage in STRs or LTRs do not have to pay for sex if they play their cards right.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Married blue pill men absolutely pay for sex, and they pay dearly.

Guys who only date/spin plates, or even engage in STRs or LTRs do not have to pay for sex if they play their cards right.

And a self maintaining married guy with high SMV that married a SMV 1 to 2 pts lower?

 

[MatureDJ]

My goal is to only give a woman I'm dating the gift of my sp3rm.

 

[logicallefty]

And a self maintaining married guy with high SMV that married a SMV 1 to 2 pts lower?

If his wife is contributing 50% of all household expenses, cooking 50% of the meals, doing 50% of the housework/yard work/repairs/etc, and things are split 50% when they divorce including child custody. (Oh I mean 'if' they divorce ), then I suppose the sex didn't cost him anything. It's also scientifically possible for you to drop a penny on the bottom of the ocean and for me to find it. But I doubt I will.

 

[Von]

Time is hell of a currency.

So yeah... Sex/Dating... cost Time.

Better make Time a Investments.

Date Wisely, Live with Passion, Invest Time in You

 

[Spaz]

Guys who only date/spin plates, or even engage in STRs or LTRs do not have to pay for sex if they play their cards right.

True.

Women invest more $$$ into a man when she wants to occupy his time.

This is pretty common knowledge.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

If his wife is contributing 50% of all household expenses, cooking 50% of the meals, doing 50% of the housework/yard work/repairs/etc, and things are split 50% when they divorce including child custody. (Oh I mean 'if' they divorce ), then I suppose the sex didn't cost him anything. It's also scientifically possible for you to drop a penny on the bottom of the ocean and for me to find it. But I doubt I will.

Well damn. You'd have to find a farm raised girl to do that. Alot of women are refusing to cook. And if they in a relationship they feel entitled to control.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

True.

Women invest more $$$ into a man when she wants to occupy his time.

This is pretty common knowledge.

So let her lead with her $, time, effort and sex.

 

[Murk]

Time is hell of a currency.

So yeah... Sex/Dating... cost Time.

Better make Time a Investments.

Date Wisely, Live with Passion, Invest Time in You

Everything costs time, if you're doing something you enjoy then what's the issue?

 

[sosousage]

you do pay with your positiveness, just like you pay other people you interact with. you pay with your time, attitude, jokes, smile, confidence.

People will reciprocate.
They will like you
smile to you
invite you to various places

and in case of girls
they will let you fuk them


of course you dont only need to be happy person, you also need to look well, clothes, haircut, gym. but these 3 alone boost life a lot even if you had no sex at all

 

[Toddz]

Yes, men pay for sex with our time, energy, and attention.

If prostitution were legal, men could bypass all three and just use money.

Unfortunately, the Feminine Imperative has made prostitution illegal. The only reason for this is simply power.

With prostitution illegal, women have the power to choose who they have sex with. If prostitution were legal, men would have the power to choose who they have sex with.

 

[sosousage]

Yes, men pay for sex with our time, energy, and attention.

If prostitution were legal, men could bypass all three and just use money.

Unfortunately, the Feminine Imperative has made prostitution illegal. The only reason for this is simply power.

With prostitution illegal, women have the power to choose who they have sex with. If prostitution were legal, men would have the power to choose who they have sex with.

i wonder if it would be cheaper then

 

[devilkingx2]

A lot of guys forget to screen for sex related things in their relationships

If you don't think to screen for a girl who is sexual, open minded, has an actual sex drive, kinky, etc. Then you have a high chance of ending up with one of those girls who only puts out for access to your resources

This is why the redpill says you should not spend much on dates, be aware of beta bucks/alpha fvcks, not commit to a girl before sex, not exclusively date her for months with no sex, etc.

 

[logicallefty]

Well damn. You'd have to find a farm raised girl to do that. Alot of women are refusing to cook. And if they in a relationship they feel entitled to control.

Women cooking. Ha! Don't even get me started. The last woman I lived with actually cooked fairly regularly. But towards the end she told me that she really didn't want to do it and was only doing it because she thought she had to. The discussion about cooking was what actually lead to our last big fight that terminated the relationship.