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Are we all, one way or the other, paying for sex?

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It's all part of the process unless you are bedding the girl the first day you meet her.

Dates amount to spending money do they not?
 

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Women or no women, simply living will cost you money.
But you can LIVE without women.

That wasn't what the question was however. It was are we essentially paying for sex, yes that is what most men do when they court a woman.
 

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But you can LIVE without women.

That wasn't what the question was however. It was are we essentially paying for sex, yes that is what most men do when they court a woman.
You don't have to pay. It's best to deal with a woman who value your time doesn't need your $.
 

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Women cooking. Ha! Don't even get me started. The last woman I lived with actually cooked fairly regularly. But towards the end she told me that she really didn't want to do it and was only doing it because she thought she had to. The discussion about cooking was what actually lead to our last big fight that terminated the relationship.
You terminated a relatiionship over some cooking? Wow. You couldn’t cook?

Personally I ask for one thing and one thing only in a relationship. If we stay together, I’ll beta bux as much as possible. If we break up, you don’t want anything. She goes her way, I go my way.
 

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I would have a big house and fancy car even if I was the only man alive


I like nice things and fast cars, that has little to do with women
 

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You terminated a relatiionship over some cooking? Wow. You couldn’t cook?

Personally I ask for one thing and one thing only in a relationship. If we stay together, I’ll beta bux as much as possible. If we break up, you don’t want anything. She goes her way, I go my way.
Fvck beta bucking and fvck doing all of the cooking. A properly invested female won't put that all on you.
 

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You terminated a relatiionship over some cooking? Wow. You couldn’t cook?

Personally I ask for one thing and one thing only in a relationship. If we stay together, I’ll beta bux as much as possible. If we break up, you don’t want anything. She goes her way, I go my way.
No she terminated the relationship after I told her how I really felt about a few things she did. One of which was the fact that she was slacking on paying her share of the household expenses so until she payed her equal share I expected her to cook for me 4-5 times per week. After we parted ways we became FWBs cuz she missed me oh so much!
 

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No she terminated the relationship after I told her how I really felt about a few things she did. One of which was the fact that she was slacking on paying her share of the household expenses so until she payed her equal share I expected her to cook for me 4-5 times per week . After we parted ways we became FWBs cuz she missed me oh so much!
It's a good thing if they come back for the dee
 

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It's a good thing if they come back for the dee
Yep always initiated by her, never me. When she wanted it she got it. Then I had other plates as well. It was a pretty good deal for me. Not so much for her when she immediately realized she had to get a second job just so she could live. She wanted to move back in and I said "HA HA I don't think so!"
 

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PM me your bank account statements along with: "NN gets no azz. PM me the OLD Blueprint" and you will have harems of 10s knocking down your door.
What the F kind of statement is this? Why don't you PM me explaining why I shouldn't ban you on the grounds of being a troll?
 

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Fvck beta bucking and fvck doing all of the cooking. A properly invested female won't put that all on you.
True. She has to invest in cooking and cleaning and stuff.

But not beta bucking? I don’t understand that about this site. You are going to be happier not beta bucking and having $50,000 more in your bank account when you are 55?

If she puts in an effort to care and I get a return, Ill beta buck not to be alone Friday and Saturday night. Don’t have the genetics to do otherwise. Call me a sucker.
 

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True. She has to invest in cooking and cleaning and stuff.

But not beta bucking? I don’t understand that about this site. You are going to be happier not beta bucking and having $50,000 more in your bank account when you are 55?

If she puts in an effort to care and I get a return, Ill beta buck not to be alone Friday and Saturday night. Don’t have the genetics to do otherwise. Call me a sucker.
Women used to joke about putting a paper bag over a guy's face "fine from the neck down". Means she's attracted to a great body. Build one.
 

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Ill beta buck not to be alone Friday and Saturday night. Don’t have the genetics to do otherwise. Call me a sucker.
I am perfectly content being alone on Friday and Saturday night just to rest and recover from a long work week. But I completely relate to what you are saying here. I have often wondered if when I get older if I will no longer be so content.
 

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Time is not really much of a factor, yeah you spend time but she spends the equal amount of time with you. To put time in the frame of prostitution is fvcked up, if you think like that you're a beta nice guy. As if it's costly for women to fvck? Haven't the past of this forum taught us anything? Women love to fvck, many want it more than guys. Yet some guys are pathetic enough to think women don't want it and have to compensate them for the undesired work that it is to have sex.

Unbalanced money spending is a separate issue. She's just a selfish b!tch without the decency to return favors Prostitutes are women who figured they can have both the money and the d!ck because some dumb, gullible men think as you do. They're not giving sex to gain money or other things of material value, they're gaining both.

Don't spend more time, energy and money on a woman than she spends on you. If your dates are too expensive then go for cheaper dates. Sounds like you're trying to impress by how much you can spend, it has zero effect. The point of dates is to get to know the other person, not to blow money everywhere. If you can't enjoy going to a club, bar, restaurant or whatever other than for the woman you're bringing then don't fvcking go there then.

If you really think the way you posted here, then you're a beta whose life revolves around impressing women. I did much of the same things, but from a different motivation. I like going to clubs, bars and restaurants, I like buying fancy clothes for myself, I bought the apartment I wanted because I liked it. Your way of thought will lead you down the path to become an irrational and angry "nice guy" chump whose every action is to please women, then you blow up when she does not reward you with that holy golden pvssy.
 

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True. She has to invest in cooking and cleaning and stuff.

But not beta bucking? I don’t understand that about this site. You are going to be happier not beta bucking and having $50,000 more in your bank account when you are 55?

If she puts in an effort to care and I get a return, Ill beta buck not to be alone Friday and Saturday night. Don’t have the genetics to do otherwise. Call me a sucker.

And you're over here calling ME a troll. Your posting history has ZERO comments that I've seen talking about a woman of your own or any girl you're dating, just giving advice. YOU HAVE NO WOMAN! lolololol

And here you are even admitting you are alone Friday and Saturday nights and don't have good looks even. Wow!!

At least I'm sleeping with women and not alone Friday and Saturday nights. You don't even have a girl! lol. EXACTLY like I thought, that's the kind of people who usually try to attack me at anything, the jealous guys.
 

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Women or no women, simply living will cost you money.
I’m working fifty hours a week to pay the mortgage on a beautiful home that I never get to enjoy because I am working fifty hours a week.
OP, I wouldn’t over analyze, you will go mad.
 

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I’m working fifty hours a week to pay the mortgage on a beautiful home that I never get to enjoy because I am working fifty hours a week.
OP, I wouldn’t over analyze, you will go mad.
If you enjoy ur work and find it fulfilling then 50 hours a week is a walk in the park.
 

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And you're over here calling ME a troll. Your posting history has ZERO comments that I've seen talking about a woman of your own or any girl you're dating, just giving advice. YOU HAVE NO WOMAN! lolololol

And here you are even admitting you are alone Friday and Saturday nights and don't have good looks even. Wow!!

At least I'm sleeping with women and not alone Friday and Saturday nights. You don't even have a girl! lol. EXACTLY like I thought, that's the kind of people who usually try to attack me at anything, the jealous guys.
And you're over here calling ME a troll. Your posting history has ZERO comments that I've seen talking about a woman of your own or any girl you're dating, just giving advice. YOU HAVE NO WOMAN! lolololol

And here you are even admitting you are alone Friday and Saturday nights and don't have good looks even. Wow!!

At least I'm sleeping with women and not alone Friday and Saturday nights. You don't even have a girl! lol. EXACTLY like I thought, that's the kind of people who usually try to attack me at anything, the jealous guys.
This post was quoting the poser Trump whi went and deleted his post after I quoted him!!!! Hahaha, covering up the fact you're a womanless poser on this forum.
 

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Blew my budget on a date with a girl last night which got me thinking do we all pay for sex??
When you take a girl out to dinner, you are paying for sex. When you pay for nice gifts for her, you are paying for sex. Any financial transaction you make with the intended result of you getting some is the equivalent of paying for sex.
A guy has two things he can spend on a woman:
• money &
• time
The majority of guys spend both on themselves. Regardless, good venue selection, good clothes, time in the gym, etc. All of this is time spent and money spent chasing p*ssy. You might not be paying the girl directly but you might as well be. You still paid for that Armani suit. You still rented that apartment because of how much better it was for p*ssy, not other facets of your life.

Then there are the costs of going out. Drinks, entrance, taxis, etc. Even if you are not buying drinks for the chicks, its money out of your pocket and lost time while you look for new gash. There are the costs of going out. Drinks, entrance, taxis, etc. Even if you are not buying drinks for the chicks, its money out of your pocket and lost time while you look for new gash.
You are constantly paying for sex. Don't want to present dating as a hoax but all we do is spend our money with the intended goal of getting in women's pants. Am i better off with escorts because you actually get your money's worth, not only in sex, but no emotional attachments???
If the man is only interested in getting 'tang and not working toward a relationship, then getting a woman to have casual sex for free is equivalent to negotiating with a prostitute for a freebie. And as you said, part of getting casual sex entails some level of emotional attachment (albeit lower than a normal relationship), and wealthy, famous men like Charlie Sheen would rather not have to deal with that, so they prefer to simply pay for it and have the gal leave after the sex session than to engage with a woman and have sex as a girlfriend, with all that entails (he said "I pay them to go home").
 
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