Are we addicts to.....S S??? and the world of meetup.com???

[TonyBaloney]

Guys,

my plan today was to investigate new opportunitis and possibiltys...its mild weather out there, and I've been exploring the world of "meetup.com"

It seems to fit the bill perfectly for me... i'm on a bud shortage right now as the guys are all hen pecked, stay at home types now, and this year, although i've had new fillys in the fold, has been socially unproductive.

So, i wake up late, and starting f ucking around on the net, and generally slopping around, and here we are at 4.00pm GMT, and ive just sat here doing nowt all day....

Is an addiction to S S to blame, i certainly feel like i need a `fix` i wasnt like this last year, and was trying s hit out more, i just seem to have a comfortable existence sitting here, moaning about women whilst life passes me by...

P.s has anybody explored tthe world of meetup.com?

 

[Eternal_water]

I just checked that site out and every single group I clicked it said "there aren't any"

 

[TonyBaloney]

what do you mean there arent any????

Here in England it seems like every man and his dog have started a group.

I saw a f uckin mad one that i was gonna check out...it was all about tantric sex where you bang drums and have erotic touching sessions....all the women looked hot

 

[Eternal_water]

I live in the tinniest little country town.

If most people said they could sprint across their town centre in under 60 seconds it would be a gross exageration.

In my case it is genuinely true.

and the average age for the residents is 60+

 

[Young Juan]

Don't blame it on an "addiction" Take ownership and blame it on yourself for not getting up, taking a shower, and even coming on here in the first place. I only check this out in the morning and after I get home at night, when I have nothing else outside planned. Take ownership bro

 

[Eternal_water]

yeah the site isn't giving me a single group within 40 miles of where I live

 

[SharinganUser]

yeah the site isn't giving me a single group within 40 miles of where I live

Noway am I driving more than 25 miles for a "meet up." Kind of a ****ty site if you ask me.

 

[Desdinova]

Meetup.com used to run for free until they started charging group leaders to use the site. That's when the whole thing went down the toilet. I'm not sure if they still function that way, but I'm honestly surprised that the site is still around.

When it was free, I did use it and enjoyed the service.

 

[Eternal_water]

Its a shame, I need some way to build a social circle from scratch.

 

[TonyBaloney]

Eternal, where there is a will, there is a way.

You gotta keep your ears pricked up, and dont rest on your laurels - there are always opportunities.

Dont be afraid to venture into new and unorthodox experiences - and never be satisfied, always be "on the hunt".

One thing i considered, which some folks on here may consider strange, but i really really dont give a f uck, is going on POF, searching as agirl looking for guys in your area, and then e mailing some of the other single uys in your area, asking if they were in the same boat as you, m8's kinda settled down, nobody to go hunting with etc etc. You'd be suprised on how many guys have no close m8's at all.....unfortunately another advantage that women have over us..........

 

[Atom Smasher]

Where I live there are tons of meetup groups. I'm north of NYC so there's a lot going on here. We have lots of hiking groups, open mic nights, and pretty much any hobby under the sun. There are all sorts of singles groups too, but I have always stayed away from those because they all seem to be professional singles, essentially married to the group itself.

Eternal, how come you can't move to greener pastures? Career? Something else?