She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
No.... You're trying to turn every little thing into an IOI. Those alone just seem like a girl being friendly.oneboy21 said:Hi Folks
Are these below IOI"s
1.Nice to meet you at the end of the Conv
2. Are you often come to this place
3. That sounds good regarding email exchange for further mail exchanges
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
no, its called bein an idiot and not walkin straight.BBX said:do any of you think a girl brushing up/ bumping into you a little bit when your walking with her an IOI?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
S1NN3R said:There is only one undeniably reliable indicator of interest.
Breakfast.....
Anything else is just guessing and playing the odds.
If an ex you were talking to made eye contact with you the whole time while you both conversate and even kept eye contact after both of you arent saying anything anymor...Is that an IOI? BTW: this is minus the touching and the extra disty(stupid) act chicks put up.GloriouslyInsane said:When she laughs and puts her head on your shoulder,its an IOI,when she talks and shes holding your shoulder is an IOI,when you look at her for a bit and smile and she starts giggling stupidly and playing with her hair its an IOI,point is,judge by actions not words.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.