"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are they flirting w/ you or just want attention?

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You know how you're just walking and then a girl comes walking past you and, intentionally turns to get right infront of you, because they want you to look at their butt? Well usually when this happens I just slow my pace and move to the side of the pavement because they a) don't have a butt or b) are a bit old.

Well today I was walking home and this girl that was obviously in high school and obviously coming from mine (because ours is the only one around for maybe a half mile) did the same thing so I didn't bother to slow down (just to make it clear I'm not like the pervs on the street who will actually speed up and be 2 inches away!! that is so creepy and obvious =-/ )

Well to make it short I ended up ahead of her because of a stoplight.. And when we reached the next one she came up behind me and faced like this :
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Her being the slanted one.. But she wasn't looking at me .But she was a bit more turned to me and like 2 inches away.. I guess her place was on that street because she turned and I went straight without saying anything (bit of eye contact though =/ )

Why do they do that?? And do you think she wanted attention or was like.. saying something? What would you have said at the stoplight where she was kind of facing me?

Thanks. The most needed questions in bold.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hah, and you talk about me. Yeah, there's something called the DJ Bible, read it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Unlike you, I don't ask others how to make friends. :) It must be very easy to say that infront of your monitor.

Anybody who wants to help feel free to post.
 
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her body language is turnd into your way, that either means a)she wants you to speak to her or B)she is just happening to look at when the cars go past so she can go home. Either way you had a chance and being a DJ and unattached, you should have gone for it.
Remember the 3 second rule, think she likes you, go for it in 3 seconds, no stop whatso ever, dont even think of a line. Just say HI
Welcome to the world of DJing
 
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