"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Are they flirting w/ you or just want attention?

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You know how you're just walking and then a girl comes walking past you and, intentionally turns to get right infront of you, because they want you to look at their butt? Well usually when this happens I just slow my pace and move to the side of the pavement because they a) don't have a butt or b) are a bit old.

Well today I was walking home and this girl that was obviously in high school and obviously coming from mine (because ours is the only one around for maybe a half mile) did the same thing so I didn't bother to slow down (just to make it clear I'm not like the pervs on the street who will actually speed up and be 2 inches away!! that is so creepy and obvious =-/ )

Well to make it short I ended up ahead of her because of a stoplight.. And when we reached the next one she came up behind me and faced like this :
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Her being the slanted one.. But she wasn't looking at me .But she was a bit more turned to me and like 2 inches away.. I guess her place was on that street because she turned and I went straight without saying anything (bit of eye contact though =/ )

Why do they do that?? And do you think she wanted attention or was like.. saying something? What would you have said at the stoplight where she was kind of facing me?

Thanks. The most needed questions in bold.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hah, and you talk about me. Yeah, there's something called the DJ Bible, read it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Unlike you, I don't ask others how to make friends. :) It must be very easy to say that infront of your monitor.

Anybody who wants to help feel free to post.
 
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her body language is turnd into your way, that either means a)she wants you to speak to her or B)she is just happening to look at when the cars go past so she can go home. Either way you had a chance and being a DJ and unattached, you should have gone for it.
Remember the 3 second rule, think she likes you, go for it in 3 seconds, no stop whatso ever, dont even think of a line. Just say HI
Welcome to the world of DJing
 
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