"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Are They Cheating----the List

COD

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-Working a lot of overtime?
-Receiving hang up phone calls?
-Excessive use of the Internet/cell phone?
-Unaccountable Hours (gone too long) ?
- Hiding the phone/credit card bills?
- Password protected files?
- Questionable excuses?
- Decreased frequency of sex
- Denying accusations
- If they say “ I need my space”

-If they give long detailed explanations
-Their phone always needs recharging, pass-word protected
-Has condoms in wallet/car/purse
-BLOCKED PHONE NUMBERS-unknown caller, calls from a payphone, deleted #’s
-WORKING OUT ALL THE TIME
-A lot of ONLINE cheaters join a FREE dating site, so that no charges appear on credit card.
-Most ONLINE Cheaters Don’t Post a picture.
-BEWARE OF NEW “HOBBIES”
-LATE NIGHT PHONE CALLS
-Decreased interest, phone call frequency, emails, text message.
-43% of all affairs are with co-workers.
-Can only be reached at work
-Frequently disappears and becomes unreachable by phone or email.
-If they hang out with “just a friend”, co-worker or an ex.
-If they go on “FISHING” trips with their “FRIENDS”
-GOES TO PARTIES ALONE
-IF THEY ALWAYS SHOWER WHEN THEY GET HOME-odds are they are washing the evidence(scent) off.
-A NEW OUTFIT MAY BE A SIGN OF A NEW LOVE INTEREST
-Deleted recycle bin, deleted calls made/rec’d on cell, deletion of IM’s/emails/text.
-Check their fridge—if it’s filled with drinks they don’t normally drink, odds are it’s from the last guy she dated.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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romangod

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My list:


1. If she tells you that she's pregnant and doesn't know who's the father.

2. Refuses to have sex with you until she's sure that a new sore is not a venereal disease.

3. If you call her and she asks, "Which one are you again?"


4. If she mistakenly calls you Larry when your name's not Larry.



Cheers!
 

Leporello

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Did you read this before you posted it?

-If they go on “FISHING” trips with their “FRIENDS”
How many girls do you know who go on fishing trips?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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KPrincess91

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i think that everyone in the world has cheated at least one time. so if you want to list all the cheaters, you can list the names of the population of the world;)
 

Cowboy 556

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dude you dodged a bullet ....get a new one there's a million woman out there
and it beats the **** out of aways wondering because if she did it once she will do it again better to find out now than 10 years and a bunch of kids later.
 
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