"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Are They Cheating----the List

COD

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-Working a lot of overtime?
-Receiving hang up phone calls?
-Excessive use of the Internet/cell phone?
-Unaccountable Hours (gone too long) ?
- Hiding the phone/credit card bills?
- Password protected files?
- Questionable excuses?
- Decreased frequency of sex
- Denying accusations
- If they say “ I need my space”

-If they give long detailed explanations
-Their phone always needs recharging, pass-word protected
-Has condoms in wallet/car/purse
-BLOCKED PHONE NUMBERS-unknown caller, calls from a payphone, deleted #’s
-WORKING OUT ALL THE TIME
-A lot of ONLINE cheaters join a FREE dating site, so that no charges appear on credit card.
-Most ONLINE Cheaters Don’t Post a picture.
-BEWARE OF NEW “HOBBIES”
-LATE NIGHT PHONE CALLS
-Decreased interest, phone call frequency, emails, text message.
-43% of all affairs are with co-workers.
-Can only be reached at work
-Frequently disappears and becomes unreachable by phone or email.
-If they hang out with “just a friend”, co-worker or an ex.
-If they go on “FISHING” trips with their “FRIENDS”
-GOES TO PARTIES ALONE
-IF THEY ALWAYS SHOWER WHEN THEY GET HOME-odds are they are washing the evidence(scent) off.
-A NEW OUTFIT MAY BE A SIGN OF A NEW LOVE INTEREST
-Deleted recycle bin, deleted calls made/rec’d on cell, deletion of IM’s/emails/text.
-Check their fridge—if it’s filled with drinks they don’t normally drink, odds are it’s from the last guy she dated.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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romangod

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My list:


1. If she tells you that she's pregnant and doesn't know who's the father.

2. Refuses to have sex with you until she's sure that a new sore is not a venereal disease.

3. If you call her and she asks, "Which one are you again?"


4. If she mistakenly calls you Larry when your name's not Larry.



Cheers!
 

Leporello

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Did you read this before you posted it?

-If they go on “FISHING” trips with their “FRIENDS”
How many girls do you know who go on fishing trips?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KPrincess91

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i think that everyone in the world has cheated at least one time. so if you want to list all the cheaters, you can list the names of the population of the world;)
 

Cowboy 556

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dude you dodged a bullet ....get a new one there's a million woman out there
and it beats the **** out of aways wondering because if she did it once she will do it again better to find out now than 10 years and a bunch of kids later.
 
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