"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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are these sh!t tests?

SeymourCake

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Something as subtle as "can you throw this away for me"?

Is this a subtle test women do to know where they stand in the relationship? Do they want know if your submissive to them or not?

Different multiple women have asked me this multiple times in class rooms, hotels, even in my own house.

What's the deal? The nice guy in me (which usually prevails) does what they ask, and the jerk in me wants me to put them in their place and ask them if they're physically handicapped.

What's your take on this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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El Payaso

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If it doesn't inconvenience you in anyway, then it's no big deal. The problem becomes when you're clearly busy with something else or she knows it is out of your way.
 

Peaks&Valleys

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Fvck yes it's a $hit test. GMMR has this one covered. Chicks with options will throw out $hit tests every so often just to make sure she's with the right MAN.

It happens. Pass it then laugh it off. When you do she'll re-submit to you ;)
 
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