"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Are there any single women out there without issues and baggage?!?!?!?!? WTF!!!!!!!

DonJuanabe

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Just ranting. Damn I am tired of the never-ending crazy shyt. Just a normal, down to earth girl is all I want who doesn't f'ing have multiple personalities, trust issues, or any other BS personality trait.

PLEASE FOR THE SAKE OF MY SANITY FIND ME ONE!!!!!!!!!!!!

DJBe
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What are examples of crazy or confusing behavior you guys have seen in women you've dated?
 

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In various girls I've dealt with: inability to trust; closing down emotionally as soon as she feels an emotional involvement; blaming men for all her problems; ballistic temper tantrums.
 

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Just took a girl out last weekend and I started to notice something I had kinda picked up on before but wasn't sure. She has a staring problem and a tendency to act out when people are watching. So were walking to the restaurant it's on the beach so we had to walk a bit and almost every time someone is looking at us she jumps all up on me ILOVEYOU ILOVEYOU ILOVEYOU!!! Then we get to the restaurant, there's a couple sitting in front of us the female facing us the male with his back to us. And we sit side by side facing their table. Out of the corner of my eye I notice the female looking over at us then looking away. After a while the male goes to the bathroom and she switches sides with him. When he comes back she says something they both look over at us and leave. I don't say anything, but I really start to scrutinize her and she just spends way more than the normal 2-4 seconds before it's staring rule to practically everyone we pass. Now i'm the total opposite of this girl, I value my privacy hate talking to strangers and get super pissed if I feel someone is scrutinizing me. So this is driving me totally nuts. I brought this up to her and she denies it and there's more to it than this but i'm gonna save you the wall of text.... or the bigger wall of text.

BRADD80 you just described "Borderline Personality Disorder"
 

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Just ranting. Damn I am tired of the never-ending crazy shyt. Just a normal, down to earth girl is all I want who doesn't f'ing have multiple personalities, trust issues, or any other BS personality trait.

PLEASE FOR THE SAKE OF MY SANITY FIND ME ONE!!!!!!!!!!!!
1. Hot
2. Single
3. Sane

You can only pick two.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The problem is our society which drives everyone crazy with the constant obsession of beauty and sex and the pursuit of it.

An attractive woman can never be at peace. Imagine day in and day out, having to deal with hordes of men constantly trying 1000 different ways to get into your pants, dealing with catty, jealous, and backstabbing female friends, throw in hormonal imbalances and PMS and its no wonder the hot ones are nuts.

I mean I appreciate a beautiful woman just as much as any guy but the level of outright worship they receive for simply being born with good genetics is downright sickening.

I can't really blame them honestly....
 
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Nope!

All humans carry some form of baggage. It all comes down to whether or not you'll be willing to accept the person's baggage.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Once you get to a certain age, all the quality women are married.
just because they are married doesn't mean they are quality

it just mean that a chick hooked a dude....not hard considering the rampant spread of AFC.

remember we have a 50/50 divorce rate...how many do you think are miserably married? a TON.



SSTYPE said:
An attractive woman can never be at peace. Imagine day in and day out, having to deal with hordes of men constantly trying 1000 different ways to get into your pants, dealing with catty, jealous, and backstabbing female friends, throw in hormonal imbalances and PMS and its no wonder the hot ones are nuts. .
I don't see a problem...hey the hot chicks should be honored i want to bust a nut on their face. :)
 

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Like I said, there is not much difference between a table dancer and the average HB8 or HB9.
 

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I told you many times, forget about US women and find a nice 3rd worlder. It's easy and cheap. Just don't expect it to last longer than 5 years per gal, and cover your butt about your property and your head. Women have 1/2 the money and all the *****, you have to recognize that fact and find a way to deal with it. 3rd world women are not brought up with all the bs in their heads that US women suffer with.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I find it very hard, too, for anything long term. That's why I've relegated my life to simply fvckin em and leavin em. I'd say 90% of em aren't worth having me for any length of time. Even the married ones. Once they have you, they don't want you; therefore, they can never fully have me, and I will never get married, unless she's like a nun, in the 2-3% percentile, and I just don't see that happening cause I'm seen as the devil (or an animal) by these prudish ones, as well as I should be. I'd just be ruining these pristine doves. Why would she want to walk down my path, and throw away all her purity with me? I've fvcked many women ever which way imaginable, eaten as5, just heinous heinous (never been with a dude, though, and never will, and never done double penetration). I would feel somewhat guilty if a pure one fell for me. I'd ruin her for sure. Then her parents would probably plot killing me. I'm just not bent for the white picket fence, golfer lifestyle. I've always been lustful, and I guess, by their standards, in darkness, lost.
 

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Damn -- I shoulda read this thread before posting anything at all about my situation... seems to cover just about everything... and answer all the questions I always seem to have -- cause it does seem like they all have that emotional baggage and shut down entirely the second they have anything going on.. and I've never once understood how they do the whole on/off switch thing, either. Could just be better at hiding that stuff, who knows.

So -- all that it comes down to is the fact that they're all absolutely insane? Ahh, the second I realize this and completely accept it, the easier it'll be in the long run.
 

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They are all crazy! The only difference is that the hotter ones are getting away with it more, because men allow it. If you are looking for a woman to marry, look for a cute one with a good upbringing, and you won't look back. I ll get me a wifey from another country ; )
 
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