"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Are some situations just not worth analyzing?

TooColdUlrick

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ditto...most if not all situations with women aren't worth anaylzing. if you find yourself doing it, it is usually because you feel the need to do so. that's the wrong direction.

but you did say in your post "I got my parents house to myself this week so it would be a shame to not take the opportinuty to get her round".

you're 28 and you live with your parents?

that one is worth analyzing because it's about you. definite deal breaker for most attractive chicks who are over 25.

you also said on the night before, "A few drinks, she drops me off home".

no car either? as a general rule, the person who does the picking up and dropping off is the one who's in control of the situation. in this case, that would be her, not you.

reading between the lines...you're 28, you live with your parents, and have no car? do you have a job?

or am i assuming?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yeah, I hear what you are saying....

I am in between a decision at the moment though... Depending on how a business goes I created I might move to the U.S in the next 6 months, so I don't want to make a decision to buy here yet. I could afford to, just playng it safe for the next 6 months deciding what to do.

Its not quite as bad as it sounds though. I live with my Dad in a nice 4 bedroom house. I get to do what I want and when I want so its not really like that. But... I still live with my parents at the end of the day!

Very soon, one way or the other, my situation will change....
 

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JoeBlack said:
Its not quite as bad as it sounds though. I live with my Dad in a nice 4 bedroom house. I get to do what I want and when I want so its not really like that.
uh...that sounds pretty bad dude. :rockon:

i didn't know you were from another country...so pretty much all bets and analysis are off the table.
 

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hmm, not sure what that means lol.....

Trust me, I will have my own crib very shortly..... :)
 
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