"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Are some situations just not worth analyzing?

TooColdUlrick

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ditto...most if not all situations with women aren't worth anaylzing. if you find yourself doing it, it is usually because you feel the need to do so. that's the wrong direction.

but you did say in your post "I got my parents house to myself this week so it would be a shame to not take the opportinuty to get her round".

you're 28 and you live with your parents?

that one is worth analyzing because it's about you. definite deal breaker for most attractive chicks who are over 25.

you also said on the night before, "A few drinks, she drops me off home".

no car either? as a general rule, the person who does the picking up and dropping off is the one who's in control of the situation. in this case, that would be her, not you.

reading between the lines...you're 28, you live with your parents, and have no car? do you have a job?

or am i assuming?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yeah, I hear what you are saying....

I am in between a decision at the moment though... Depending on how a business goes I created I might move to the U.S in the next 6 months, so I don't want to make a decision to buy here yet. I could afford to, just playng it safe for the next 6 months deciding what to do.

Its not quite as bad as it sounds though. I live with my Dad in a nice 4 bedroom house. I get to do what I want and when I want so its not really like that. But... I still live with my parents at the end of the day!

Very soon, one way or the other, my situation will change....
 

TooColdUlrick

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JoeBlack said:
Its not quite as bad as it sounds though. I live with my Dad in a nice 4 bedroom house. I get to do what I want and when I want so its not really like that.
uh...that sounds pretty bad dude. :rockon:

i didn't know you were from another country...so pretty much all bets and analysis are off the table.
 

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hmm, not sure what that means lol.....

Trust me, I will have my own crib very shortly..... :)
 
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