"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Are some situations just not worth analyzing?

TooColdUlrick

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ditto...most if not all situations with women aren't worth anaylzing. if you find yourself doing it, it is usually because you feel the need to do so. that's the wrong direction.

but you did say in your post "I got my parents house to myself this week so it would be a shame to not take the opportinuty to get her round".

you're 28 and you live with your parents?

that one is worth analyzing because it's about you. definite deal breaker for most attractive chicks who are over 25.

you also said on the night before, "A few drinks, she drops me off home".

no car either? as a general rule, the person who does the picking up and dropping off is the one who's in control of the situation. in this case, that would be her, not you.

reading between the lines...you're 28, you live with your parents, and have no car? do you have a job?

or am i assuming?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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JoeBlack

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Yeah, I hear what you are saying....

I am in between a decision at the moment though... Depending on how a business goes I created I might move to the U.S in the next 6 months, so I don't want to make a decision to buy here yet. I could afford to, just playng it safe for the next 6 months deciding what to do.

Its not quite as bad as it sounds though. I live with my Dad in a nice 4 bedroom house. I get to do what I want and when I want so its not really like that. But... I still live with my parents at the end of the day!

Very soon, one way or the other, my situation will change....
 

TooColdUlrick

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JoeBlack said:
Its not quite as bad as it sounds though. I live with my Dad in a nice 4 bedroom house. I get to do what I want and when I want so its not really like that.
uh...that sounds pretty bad dude. :rockon:

i didn't know you were from another country...so pretty much all bets and analysis are off the table.
 

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hmm, not sure what that means lol.....

Trust me, I will have my own crib very shortly..... :)
 
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