"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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are some situations bad for sarging?

d.k.kong

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i had my teeth cleaned yesterday. the woman working on my teeth was hot, and i felt that we were connecting (when we were talking that is)

but i didn;t think it would b cool to ask for her number before i left..... i mean she had been scraping my plaque and telling me to rinse and spit.

do you guys think it would have been ok?

what kind of situations are not ok to be sarging?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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john_1234

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she's aware it's an awkward situation for you since they're cleaning your mouth. if you sarged her, while coming across as if you weren't phased at all by the situation, i think she'd respond well
 

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I would say funerals, but the women are so horny, it's not even fair..
 

NINJA PIMP

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Doesn't matter if she helped you clean out your colon...it's all fair game if you don't let it bother you.

In reality, there is no situation thats bad for pickup except the very moment you see a HB kissing some guy..probably not the best idea to walk up to her, tug her sleeve and get the number :p

Aside from that, you should have enough balls to pursue opportunities wherever they show up.
 

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d.k.kong,

Oh man, I love those kinds of awkward situations because they`re so much fun to work with.

The next time this HB works on or cleans your teeth, at the end of the session, say something like, "Since you had me on my back, and I didn`t get wined and dined, tell me your phone number and we`ll do this right". Then go on to tell her that she better pick a fancy restaurant because you`re not cheap or easy and you`re picky too.

You get the idea. Leverage the situation to your benefit, always.

Just my 2 cents.

Cheers,
Mav
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A bad situation to sarge would be in the aftermath of a terrorist attack, or in the contamination ward of a disease control centre.

Although I guess some guys could pull it off. "So, you've got the bubonic plague? So do I!"
 
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