She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Tyler worked on his game for over ten years. That's the extreme herculean effort that a "not hot" guy has to put in to get women.jurry said:Only in the world of betas filled with doubt/insecurity does height and hair matter. If you have the balls and the eyes and the game, doesnt make a damn difference. Look at tyler from RSD, ugly as fvck and pulls dimes every night of the week, because hes practically fearless. Theres also a good video that julien does about acting like the "fat bald ceo" take a look for it.
You dont need to dedicate your life to pickup, it is about maintaining an attitude. Looks are way more important to men than they are to women. Game trumps looks every day. I'm probably a 6 or 7 with very hit or miss game, and ill try to hit on any girl, dont give a fuk if she is a 10. All this analysis of looks and height etc. does is promote the loser mindset of "ahh i shouldnt bother because she is X and i am Y, it will never work". It is failure that you've decided upon for yourself to rationalize your fear of rejection. I see ugly guys all the time with smokin girls like "man how did he pull that off" and good for them, they just said fck it thats the girl i want i dont care about anything else.Mike32ct said:Tyler worked on his game for over ten years. That's the extreme herculean effort that a "not hot" guy has to put in to get women.
Yes, if you dedicate your entire life to pickup, you could look like Shrek and score. But that's not the same thing as saying looks/height/hair don't matter.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
He's not ugly as fvck but I'll agree he is short, thinning hair and ginger. There's no real proof he pulls any girls let alone dimes. He's just running "flash game" and showing you the best ones out of many approaches.jurry said:Look at tyler from RSD, ugly as fvck and pulls dimes every night of the week, because hes practically fearless. Theres also a good video that julien does about acting like the "fat bald ceo" take a look for it.
Those dimes are beng paid to get pulled for the propaganda videos that the betas watch thinking they can pull chicks too. Then when they go out and get laughed at, they get pissed off that they wasted their time and money on PUA gimimcks.jurry said:Only in the world of betas filled with doubt/insecurity does height and hair matter. If you have the balls and the eyes and the game, doesnt make a damn difference. Look at tyler from RSD, ugly as fvck and pulls dimes every night of the week, because hes practically fearless. Theres also a good video that julien does about acting like the "fat bald ceo" take a look for it.