Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Tyler worked on his game for over ten years. That's the extreme herculean effort that a "not hot" guy has to put in to get women.jurry said:Only in the world of betas filled with doubt/insecurity does height and hair matter. If you have the balls and the eyes and the game, doesnt make a damn difference. Look at tyler from RSD, ugly as fvck and pulls dimes every night of the week, because hes practically fearless. Theres also a good video that julien does about acting like the "fat bald ceo" take a look for it.
You dont need to dedicate your life to pickup, it is about maintaining an attitude. Looks are way more important to men than they are to women. Game trumps looks every day. I'm probably a 6 or 7 with very hit or miss game, and ill try to hit on any girl, dont give a fuk if she is a 10. All this analysis of looks and height etc. does is promote the loser mindset of "ahh i shouldnt bother because she is X and i am Y, it will never work". It is failure that you've decided upon for yourself to rationalize your fear of rejection. I see ugly guys all the time with smokin girls like "man how did he pull that off" and good for them, they just said fck it thats the girl i want i dont care about anything else.Mike32ct said:Tyler worked on his game for over ten years. That's the extreme herculean effort that a "not hot" guy has to put in to get women.
Yes, if you dedicate your entire life to pickup, you could look like Shrek and score. But that's not the same thing as saying looks/height/hair don't matter.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
He's not ugly as fvck but I'll agree he is short, thinning hair and ginger. There's no real proof he pulls any girls let alone dimes. He's just running "flash game" and showing you the best ones out of many approaches.jurry said:Look at tyler from RSD, ugly as fvck and pulls dimes every night of the week, because hes practically fearless. Theres also a good video that julien does about acting like the "fat bald ceo" take a look for it.
Those dimes are beng paid to get pulled for the propaganda videos that the betas watch thinking they can pull chicks too. Then when they go out and get laughed at, they get pissed off that they wasted their time and money on PUA gimimcks.jurry said:Only in the world of betas filled with doubt/insecurity does height and hair matter. If you have the balls and the eyes and the game, doesnt make a damn difference. Look at tyler from RSD, ugly as fvck and pulls dimes every night of the week, because hes practically fearless. Theres also a good video that julien does about acting like the "fat bald ceo" take a look for it.