Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Are short men doomed?

j.619

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^Wrong. Thinning hair is easier to see when you're looking up. Lights give that sh!t away more than looking down on someone's dome.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It doesn't matter how tall you are. You shouldn't care what women think of you. The only thing you should care about is getting better at game and not letting your height deter you. If they aren't into you for your height, it really doesn't matter because you shouldn't give a damn anyway.
 

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jurry said:
Only in the world of betas filled with doubt/insecurity does height and hair matter. If you have the balls and the eyes and the game, doesnt make a damn difference. Look at tyler from RSD, ugly as fvck and pulls dimes every night of the week, because hes practically fearless. Theres also a good video that julien does about acting like the "fat bald ceo" take a look for it.
Tyler worked on his game for over ten years. That's the extreme herculean effort that a "not hot" guy has to put in to get women.

Yes, if you dedicate your entire life to pickup, you could look like Shrek and score. But that's not the same thing as saying looks/height/hair don't matter.
 

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Mike32ct said:
Tyler worked on his game for over ten years. That's the extreme herculean effort that a "not hot" guy has to put in to get women.

Yes, if you dedicate your entire life to pickup, you could look like Shrek and score. But that's not the same thing as saying looks/height/hair don't matter.
You dont need to dedicate your life to pickup, it is about maintaining an attitude. Looks are way more important to men than they are to women. Game trumps looks every day. I'm probably a 6 or 7 with very hit or miss game, and ill try to hit on any girl, dont give a fuk if she is a 10. All this analysis of looks and height etc. does is promote the loser mindset of "ahh i shouldnt bother because she is X and i am Y, it will never work". It is failure that you've decided upon for yourself to rationalize your fear of rejection. I see ugly guys all the time with smokin girls like "man how did he pull that off" and good for them, they just said fck it thats the girl i want i dont care about anything else.
 

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Don't get me wrong; I respect any guy who puts himself out there. I've even done it myself in the past and pulled a rabbit out of a hat at the last minute despite so so looks, but it's VERY difficult to do due to slim odds. My only point is that game is much less efficient the lower the guy is on the attractiveness scale. The lower your looks, the FAR more time required in the field if you choose to go that route.

I would never tell any guy to give up. Just know what you're dealing with, and never take it personally.

But anyway, back to the OP. I stand behind my hair comments though. Get the sexiest hairstyle you can, probably one with some volume. I would do that first, before even thinking about the gym or new clothes. It's the quickest and most bhang for the buck. Then focus on the body. Then clothes*.

*Off topic, but I believe that the shirt is the most important clothing item.

Good luck man.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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jurry said:
Look at tyler from RSD, ugly as fvck and pulls dimes every night of the week, because hes practically fearless. Theres also a good video that julien does about acting like the "fat bald ceo" take a look for it.
He's not ugly as fvck but I'll agree he is short, thinning hair and ginger. There's no real proof he pulls any girls let alone dimes. He's just running "flash game" and showing you the best ones out of many approaches.

Let him come to my city and go to the clubs and approach. I bet he doesn't pull anything.
 

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I'm not short by any means (6'2") but I'm here to share some good news:

Short height isn't a death blow. Not at all.

BUT

It's very tough to game women online when you're on the shorter side. As other posters have said every women online is looking for a 6 foot plus guy. Even if they're 5'0" and chubby! It's honestly ridiculous.

Shorter guys would be best served to work on real life game because height can be overcome by charisma and game. Online they'll shoot you down once they see that you're short.

Real life story: The hottest girl I ever messed with was a sexy 5'8" thickly built amazon of a women. Her ex? 5'5" skinny as a rail.

Have hope my vertically challenged brethren!
 

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jurry said:
Only in the world of betas filled with doubt/insecurity does height and hair matter. If you have the balls and the eyes and the game, doesnt make a damn difference. Look at tyler from RSD, ugly as fvck and pulls dimes every night of the week, because hes practically fearless. Theres also a good video that julien does about acting like the "fat bald ceo" take a look for it.
Those dimes are beng paid to get pulled for the propaganda videos that the betas watch thinking they can pull chicks too. Then when they go out and get laughed at, they get pissed off that they wasted their time and money on PUA gimimcks.

I was at a club once and chicks were getting paid to be in some PUA video they were filming. They even brought in their own girls just for the video.

I know a short guy and he isn't a beta at all. He is getting over looked because women want a tall guy.
 
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