"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Are self growth and women mutually exclusive

Trainwreck

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I've figured out that girls find the perks of being rich the most attractive in a man. These include loads of free time, money, attitude, prestige, drugs, and shiny things. However, these things can be acquired by anybody at the cost of personal development. You can have a McDonald's worker driving a mustang on a 84 month loan or leased, have enough free time to go bars every night, be able to do drugstore every night without worrying about job security, have a douche bag attitude, and small town party boy prestige. Of course this guy will burn out fast, but it is possible to live like a rich guy when you aren't anywhere close.....especially with credit cards and all these easy loans.

If you are a guy trying to improve himself then you lose all or most of these aspects. Girls these days will see you as boring and ride the fun train until it derails and come finding you:)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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