Are self growth and women mutually exclusive

[Trainwreck]

I've figured out that girls find the perks of being rich the most attractive in a man. These include loads of free time, money, attitude, prestige, drugs, and shiny things. However, these things can be acquired by anybody at the cost of personal development. You can have a McDonald's worker driving a mustang on a 84 month loan or leased, have enough free time to go bars every night, be able to do drugstore every night without worrying about job security, have a douche bag attitude, and small town party boy prestige. Of course this guy will burn out fast, but it is possible to live like a rich guy when you aren't anywhere close.....especially with credit cards and all these easy loans.

If you are a guy trying to improve himself then you lose all or most of these aspects. Girls these days will see you as boring and ride the fun train until it derails and come finding you