"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Are self growth and women mutually exclusive

Trainwreck

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 13, 2016
Messages
679
Reaction score
287
Age
31
I've figured out that girls find the perks of being rich the most attractive in a man. These include loads of free time, money, attitude, prestige, drugs, and shiny things. However, these things can be acquired by anybody at the cost of personal development. You can have a McDonald's worker driving a mustang on a 84 month loan or leased, have enough free time to go bars every night, be able to do drugstore every night without worrying about job security, have a douche bag attitude, and small town party boy prestige. Of course this guy will burn out fast, but it is possible to live like a rich guy when you aren't anywhere close.....especially with credit cards and all these easy loans.

If you are a guy trying to improve himself then you lose all or most of these aspects. Girls these days will see you as boring and ride the fun train until it derails and come finding you:)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Top