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Are people having alot of unprotected sex in relationships. Thats if they are even having sex at all

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Seems to me people ain't even having much sex whether its unprotected or protected while in relationships. This is just from talking to both sexes in relationships. If they are having sex the guy is begging for it and then end up breaking up and then he might end up banging a couple of girls.

Sex and attraction is really a spontaneous thing. In movies like american pie they show this and its kinda true. no sex in a relationship and the guy is watching porn while the girl is in the bath fingering herself. other movies have all the same thing.
 

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Seems to me people ain't even having much sex whether its unprotected or protected while in relationships. This is just from talking to both sexes in relationships. If they are having sex the guy is begging for it and then end up breaking up and then he might end up banging a couple of girls.

Sex and attraction is really a spontaneous thing. In movies like american pie they show this and its kinda true. no sex in a relationship and the guy is watching porn while the girl is in the bath fingering herself. other movies have all the same thing.
What's the point in being with someone if you're not having sex?
 

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What's the point in being with someone if you're not having sex?
i dont know but females i know are telling me their sex life is not existent and they say their husband probably likes a younger girl or watches porn.
 

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Hmm... why are they talking about this stuff to you? Seems a bit personal... No?
I've had girls pretty much within 5 mins of them opening me while im eating a banana and apple outside of a club rattle of a whole lot of stuff about their boyfriend and are in tears at the end of it. Its nothing strange. I know a police officer who went around to sort a domestic issue and the girl was talking about her vagina to him soon as he got there. He said she was nuts and laughed about it when telling us. the guy was talked to as far as i know.
 

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TMI barely exits in 2020. You'd be surprised what chicks tell you.
this was happening in 2006 when i was in high school. Girls asking to touch my **** within 5 mins of meeting them on my third day of school of being there. Listening to johnny sopornos stuff he says some women are sluts, some are *****s and some are wifes.
 

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i dont know but females i know are telling me their sex life is not existent and they say their husband probably likes a younger girl or watches porn.
Desire usually dies in LTR's - familiarity breeds contempt.
 

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Are they out of shape? The dude can't leave because the state her her divorce lawyer will rape them financially. With porn, a dude can do the knuckle shuffle on his piss pump on the hottest females out there. Chances are, they couldn't get that type of
I've had girls pretty much within 5 mins of them opening me while im eating a banana and apple outside of a club rattle of a whole lot of stuff about their boyfriend and are in tears at the end of it. Its nothing strange. I know a police officer who went around to sort a domestic issue and the girl was talking about her vagina to him soon as he got there. He said she was nuts and laughed about it when telling us. the guy was talked to as far as i know.
You hang around some interesting people then.
 

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Seems to me people ain't even having much sex whether its unprotected or protected while in relationships. This is just from talking to both sexes in relationships. If they are having sex the guy is begging for it and then end up breaking up and then he might end up banging a couple of girls.

Sex and attraction is really a spontaneous thing. In movies like american pie they show this and its kinda true. no sex in a relationship and the guy is watching porn while the girl is in the bath fingering herself. other movies have all the same thing.
The best past relationship I've had back in 2012 didn't involve sex but was rather blissful compared to the 2014 marriage I had which did involve sex but was rather meh all over. It took up to 2018 for the memories involved in a sexless (6 years) to fade off to the point it's really far background noise. At the end of the day, I didn't think sex with that ex-gf (ie if we got married) was that big of a deal with me. I wanted her emotions, heart, mind, and not have the attention of any other chad-guy. I would say emotional cheating hurts harder than the sex or no sex aspect.
 

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The best past relationship I've had back in 2012 didn't involve sex but was rather blissful compared to the 2014 marriage I had which did involve sex but was rather meh all over. It took up to 2018 for the memories involved in a sexless (6 years) to fade off to the point it's really far background noise. At the end of the day, I didn't think sex with that ex-gf (ie if we got married) was that big of a deal with me. I wanted her emotions, heart, mind, and not have the attention of any other chad-guy. I would say emotional cheating hurts harder than the sex or no sex aspect.
Were you focused on being a good husband boyfriend or whatever to her not concerned about her emotions heart and mind towards other chad guys which every girl christian or not is going to have? Talking openly about both of your temptations with her telling you stuff like she finds that guy attractive and then reminding her she's married or in relationship with you and that is wrong is start. Every girl whether christian or not is going to have lust issues just like yourself will. Not all christian or non christian will actively engage in it but will be tempted from time to time. Getting drunk is a temptation as well. Some are able to overcome it whether they are christian or not. The girls I talk to are quite open about who they are attracted to and we ain't married. They told me at a time that they are scared i wouldn't talk to them anymore because they banged some guy without me knowing. Now they talk about it quite honestly with me. I tell them from time to time it's a sin and it either go's on deaf ears or later they realise it.
 
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The best past relationship I've had back in 2012 didn't involve sex but was rather blissful compared to the 2014 marriage I had which did involve sex but was rather meh all over. It took up to 2018 for the memories involved in a sexless (6 years) to fade off to the point it's really far background noise. At the end of the day, I didn't think sex with that ex-gf (ie if we got married) was that big of a deal with me. I wanted her emotions, heart, mind, and not have the attention of any other chad-guy. I would say emotional cheating hurts harder than the sex or no sex aspect.
What do you mean you didn't have s3x with her? I like the emotional connection too but I would be incapable of that without s3x with her. To me those things go hand in hand. I wouldn't even cuddle with a girl that I'm not s3xually active with. To me cuddling is just the same as foreplay.
 

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Were you focused on being a good husband boyfriend or whatever to her not concerned about her emotions heart and mind towards other chad guys which every girl christian or not is going to have? Talking openly about both of your temptations with her telling you stuff like she finds that guy attractive and then reminding her she's married or in relationship with you and that is wrong is start. Every girl whether christian or not is going to have lust issues just like yourself will. Not all christian or non christian will actively engage in it but will be tempted from time to time. Getting drunk is a temptation as well. Some are able to overcome it whether they are christian or not. The girls I talk to are quite open about who they are attracted to and we ain't married. They told me at a time that they are scared i wouldn't talk to them anymore because they banged some guy without me knowing. Now they talk about it quite honestly with me. I tell them from time to time it's a sin and it either go's on deaf ears or later they realise it.
It's 8 years ago and the break-up happened abruptly. Of course I was focused on being a good boyfriend with her! 2012 stands out after 8 years.
 

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What do you mean you didn't have s3x with her? I like the emotional connection too but I would be incapable of that without s3x with her. To me those things go hand in hand. I wouldn't even cuddle with a girl that I'm not s3xually active with. To me cuddling is just the same as foreplay.
The make-out sessions were very intense and involved locations including parks (where a deer happened to cross while we were making-out), in an island after dark near the Yellow florescent harbour lights with bats flying overhead and going back in a boat to see the dark island contrast with the bright city lights to the other side of the boat. Make-out sessions were so intense it's like I felt I was consuming her and couldn't stop. We sat in the backseat together and I sucked her tits. I can remember her body odor sometimes (less now as allot of time has passed).

The scenes and locations and memories also rock as well as the action. I did visit her bedroom where we watched "I am Legend" on her CRT TV. Her home or apartment locations were nice, but the nature locations were just amazing. We went to the city island twice together.
4 years later, I visited the same island like 7 times on my own to re-visit the nostalgic memories and re-imagine myself with her looking at the past.
 

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The make-out sessions were very intense and involved locations including parks (where a deer happened to cross while we were making-out), in an island after dark near the Yellow florescent harbour lights with bats flying overhead and going back in a boat to see the dark island contrast with the bright city lights to the other side of the boat. Make-out sessions were so intense it's like I felt I was consuming her and couldn't stop. We sat in the backseat together and I sucked her tits. I can remember her body odor sometimes (less now as allot of time has passed).

The scenes and locations and memories also rock as well as the action. I did visit her bedroom where we watched "I am Legend" on her CRT TV. Her home or apartment locations were nice, but the nature locations were just amazing. We went to the city island twice together.
4 years later, I visited the same island like 7 times on my own to re-visit the nostalgic memories and re-imagine myself with her looking at the past.
What was the reason you broke up? You would like to do this all the time with 1 girl but it never seems to work out for some reason. Polygamy is also something that was practiced years ago and still practiced today but I don't think that was the orignal plan and seems to create turmoil engaging in it. Even making out with multiple girls creates problems without the sex aspect with it. I engaged in making out with two girls the other night and the first one I was in love with pushed me onto another girl who i was in love with. In these moments its like you two are the only two in the room looking at each other. I don't know whether you can do it with two or more at the same time but certain characters did try it on in the ancient world and had mutiple wifes. this is documented in the bible and the koran. But the original plan was adam and eve one man for one woman and seems to be the way to go.
 
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What was the reason you broke up?
Because she was divorced and my mother and I spoke with her ex-husband and pastor of her former church and it her ex-husband, who is also a pastor himself as well, is praying that his wife repents and comes back to him. We can reserve Bible discussions on this for PM. It didn't feel like it was God's will to continue with her because there were too many fault-lines within the relationship itself leading to feelings of insecurity and loneliness (ie loneliness within a relationship is 10 times worst than loneliness being single) and unsettling information about her past.

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You would like to do this all the time with 1 girl but it never seems to work out for some reason.
You are concerned about that more than we are talking about something in 2012?

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Polygamy is also something that was practiced years ago and still practiced today but I don't think that was the orignal plan and seems to create turmoil engaging in it. Even making out with multiple girls creates problems.
It was one girl I was with that I dreaded the thought that one day this might all end because it was so perfect. I didn't even feel that way with my ex-wife because it didn't hit as high notes as the 2012 relationship, yet sex was involved with ex-wife. I'm merely pointing out that sex obviously isn't everything in terms of what makes a great memory that lasts after a break-up, and therefore not that big of a deal, or we would be talking about my ex-wife (2014) rather than my ex-gf (2012).
 

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The make-out sessions were very intense and involved locations including parks (where a deer happened to cross while we were making-out), in an island after dark near the Yellow florescent harbour lights with bats flying overhead and going back in a boat to see the dark island contrast with the bright city lights to the other side of the boat. Make-out sessions were so intense it's like I felt I was consuming her and couldn't stop. We sat in the backseat together and I sucked her tits. I can remember her body odor sometimes (less now as allot of time has passed).

The scenes and locations and memories also rock as well as the action. I did visit her bedroom where we watched "I am Legend" on her CRT TV. Her home or apartment locations were nice, but the nature locations were just amazing. We went to the city island twice together.
4 years later, I visited the same island like 7 times on my own to re-visit the nostalgic memories and re-imagine myself with her looking at the past.
Man don't do this to yourself. You have ty learn to let go of stuff. Also if you are able to get your mouth on her tiddies you can usually work your hand down her pants. If she pulls it away just keep kissing and sucking on those tiddies and keep trying. Or rub her a bit outside her pants first. Did you even try to touch her vagina?
 

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Man don't do this to yourself. You have ty learn to let go of stuff. Also if you are able to get your mouth on her tiddies you can usually work your hand down her pants. If she pulls it away just keep kissing and sucking on those tiddies and keep trying. Or rub her a bit outside her pants first. Did you even try to touch her vagina?
Not really. I got married to my ex-wife about a year and a few months after the break-up with my ex-gf and we had sex. Whatever, right? Ex-gf is still more dominant in memory since we went to more places together so other places bring back up memories.
 
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