"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Are Old People Supposed to Be Cute?

Chosen1

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This is crazy, I was out today at cvs when this older chick told me I could get a free gift. Me being the cheap type and wanting to get my hat decided to listen. Then I noticed that this lady who was at least 40 (she looked it) was acting cute.

She had really nice looking eyes and bounced around a lot like a little kid. I mean it was kind of weird. Then I thought she's cute but she looks old even her teeth looked old,but..... I was slightly attracted. Weird anyways I didn't get my free gift, but I'm going back to get a hat that says I love jesus, and a chicago white sox cap.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PigAdlemPimp

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This woman has the X-Factor or Charisma, like the dudes I wrote about in another thread, you don't know why you are attracted to her, but you just are, it isn't anything she is doing, nor her looks, she just has something that most of the other babes don't have, it is a gift, that is better than both game and looks ever will be. :yes:
 

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I wish I had that gift,everybody likes me but not because charisma. She did have crazy eyes.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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