"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are Old People Supposed to Be Cute?

Chosen1

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This is crazy, I was out today at cvs when this older chick told me I could get a free gift. Me being the cheap type and wanting to get my hat decided to listen. Then I noticed that this lady who was at least 40 (she looked it) was acting cute.

She had really nice looking eyes and bounced around a lot like a little kid. I mean it was kind of weird. Then I thought she's cute but she looks old even her teeth looked old,but..... I was slightly attracted. Weird anyways I didn't get my free gift, but I'm going back to get a hat that says I love jesus, and a chicago white sox cap.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PigAdlemPimp

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This woman has the X-Factor or Charisma, like the dudes I wrote about in another thread, you don't know why you are attracted to her, but you just are, it isn't anything she is doing, nor her looks, she just has something that most of the other babes don't have, it is a gift, that is better than both game and looks ever will be. :yes:
 

Chosen1

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I wish I had that gift,everybody likes me but not because charisma. She did have crazy eyes.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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