"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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are movies good for a first date?

kevin1198

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i have been wondering, i live in a small town, so theres not really much to do.
maybe bowling, but nothing fun and exciting like laser tag (i know these sound childish but the girls love it!) or anything else, so are the movies alright for a first date, then followed up with something like chilling at her house or something?

question #2 is it ok to land the kiss on a first date? i have never tried it.
nor have i had previous experience in kissing a girl, (really AFC till i found this site) so any insight on this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GNRSLASH

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Movies are alright for a first date, but they're usually better later on. The first date, you usually won't be making out, still a chance you might tho. And yea def kiss th first date
 
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