"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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are movies good for a first date?

kevin1198

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i have been wondering, i live in a small town, so theres not really much to do.
maybe bowling, but nothing fun and exciting like laser tag (i know these sound childish but the girls love it!) or anything else, so are the movies alright for a first date, then followed up with something like chilling at her house or something?

question #2 is it ok to land the kiss on a first date? i have never tried it.
nor have i had previous experience in kissing a girl, (really AFC till i found this site) so any insight on this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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GNRSLASH

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Movies are alright for a first date, but they're usually better later on. The first date, you usually won't be making out, still a chance you might tho. And yea def kiss th first date
 
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