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Are most girls depressed?

Thebestthereeveris

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Is it just me or are most girls depressed or have considered suicide? Almost every girl once I sleep with them confess to me they are or have been suicidal or heavily depressed. Anyone else notice this or am I just ducked up and attract these types of women lmao
 

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Is it just me or are most girls depressed or have considered suicide? Almost every girl once I sleep with them confess to me they are or have been suicidal or heavily depressed. Anyone else notice this or am I just ducked up and attract these types of women lmao
It's not just women, everybody is depressed these days.

Women specifically are in a difficult era to live in. Women are expected to chase career goals like men. But their instincts will tell them the exact opposite of what society tells them.

We as men try to " protect " our women somewhat , for example we would warn her not to be known as the town bicycle. Yet the other town bicycles will encourage her to live a life of sexual freedom. Once she went on the CC , there's no way back unfortunately. I think being a sloot is the most detrimental thing a woman can do to herself. That why I personally pity pornstars and hookers.

Technology made it easy for women to date a but difficult for them to love. And by heart women are loving creatures. She can't date down, but the only thing that's "up" are married man and Chad players. And let's not forget this will mostly apply when she is in her short prime between 20 and 35.

Technology also drives women crazy, because there's an abundance of comparison material now. Incels give up because of the mythological "Chad" , women hate themselves because they consume tons of media with only hot people in it, whether that's MTV or Instagram.

Career vs motherhood vs abortions, bad food consumption, unrealistic expectations from both themselves and their "potential partners ", multiple heart brakes and multiple "the ones(10) that got aways ". The list goes on and on.
 

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I don’t really buy the idea that women are unhappy. I think it’s largely red pill cope, to be honest. They seem to be nearly as satisfied with life as they are with themselves, by and large. And why not? Every meaningful thing (and most non-meaningful things) have been rigged in their favor. Why wouldn't they be happy?
 
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On average, 1 in 5 women are on anti-depressants. And the most depressed demographic are college-educated white people.

I blame it on the cognitive dissonance that is the hallmark of the mainstream blue-pilled perspective, and the lack of any kind of spiritual practice to give them meaning.

If I see a woman identifying as a liberal, feminist and atheist there is a nearly 100% chance she's a miserable cvnt.
 

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Why would they be depressed? About what? I'd say it's the guys who are more depressed.
While women have no issues getting sex, they are having issues finding commitment. Also, instead of being at home with babies and a loving husband, women decided that they'd rather work dreary, meaningless white collar jobs.

Now, in those dreary, meaningless white collar jobs, they are protected from layoffs for the most part. Companies do everything they can not to lay off female employees, especially minority females.

There's nothing about white collar work that is as satisfying for a woman as spending time with her children.

On average, 1 in 5 women are on anti-depressants. And the most depressed demographic are college-educated white people.

I blame it on the cognitive dissonance that is the hallmark of the mainstream blue-pilled perspective, and the lack of any kind of spiritual practice to give them meaning.

If I see a woman identifying as a liberal, feminist and atheist there is a nearly 100% chance she's a miserable cvnt.
Most women are not depressed, but when someone expands the definition to anxiety, depression, and bipolar disorder, there are far more women who have at least one of those disorders.
 

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It's not just women, everybody is depressed these days.

Women specifically are in a difficult era to live in. Women are expected to chase career goals like men. But their instincts will tell them the exact opposite of what society tells them.

We as men try to " protect " our women somewhat , for example we would warn her not to be known as the town bicycle. Yet the other town bicycles will encourage her to live a life of sexual freedom. Once she went on the CC , there's no way back unfortunately. I think being a sloot is the most detrimental thing a woman can do to herself. That why I personally pity pornstars and hookers.

Technology made it easy for women to date a but difficult for them to love. And by heart women are loving creatures. She can't date down, but the only thing that's "up" are married man and Chad players. And let's not forget this will mostly apply when she is in her short prime between 20 and 35.

Technology also drives women crazy, because there's an abundance of comparison material now. Incels give up because of the mythological "Chad" , women hate themselves because they consume tons of media with only hot people in it, whether that's MTV or Instagram.

Career vs motherhood vs abortions, bad food consumption, unrealistic expectations from both themselves and their "potential partners ", multiple heart brakes and multiple "the ones(10) that got aways ". The list goes on and on.
Let it also be known most of these girls are slvts rhoih they deny it. And I don’t think I just attract slvts tbh most girls nowadays are complete *****s
 

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Every stats out There shows women happyness is at the lowest it ever been since 1960s when they recorded the data.

Too Much choices
Too Much pressure to be a Man
No more rôle identity based on her biological
Etc.
 

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Is it just me or are most girls depressed or have considered suicide? Almost every girl once I sleep with them confess to me they are or have been suicidal or heavily depressed. Anyone else notice this or am I just ducked up and attract these types of women lmao
That has not been my experience. Where do you meet these women?
 

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It feels like posts like these are usually from dudes that are hoping women are depressed.. .. The reality is, alot of women are happier than ever.. Why? Because women relish off attention and this social media age allows them many diff ways to receive attention, gifts, connect with other women, express themselves, etc. Not to mention so many opportunities to make money.

The only people who are truly depressed are those who are stuck in years of habitual mediocrity or have not come to terms with being unattractive.. Attractive people , majority of are having a blast right now im sure lol. So are many unattractive people.. But it also depends on what your life is comprised of.

One of the MAIN factors of happiness is having a healthy social life. You can be ugly, fat, stinky, whatever but if you have good friends, you're happier than everyone who doesnt have a circle of good friends.

The 2nd would be financial security/financial freedom. Do people have enough money to be doing what they want to do?
Third would be something like health.. Are people healthy and not constantly worrying about their health issues?

Better post would be, From a scale of 1-10 how happy are YOU in life?
 

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It feels like posts like these are usually from dudes that are hoping women are depressed.. .. The reality is, alot of women are happier than ever.. Why? Because women relish off attention and this social media age allows them many diff ways to receive attention, gifts, connect with other women, express themselves, etc. Not to mention so many opportunities to make money.
This point of view comes from a fundamentally flawed understanding of happiness. All of these make women happy in the moment. In the long run, these all cause problems that make women unhappy.

Here is a simplified example explaining my point: eating lots of cakes makes you very happy when you eat them. But a few hours later, the happiness is gone. And a few years down the road, guess what! You're obese and your obesity will cause health issues which will in turn make you unhappy.
 

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Is it just me or are most girls depressed or have considered suicide? Almost every girl once I sleep with them confess to me they are or have been suicidal or heavily depressed. Anyone else notice this or am I just ducked up and attract these types of women lmao
Let me tell you something about suicidal people.They mostly don’t look suicidal,act suicidal or seem suicidal in any particular way.They don’t go around telling people about it.Mostly because they don’t feel like people will understand or because they’re ashamed that they’re not okay.

Most of the time anyone tells you about it,it’s attention seeking.Which is a shame,because it’s a very serious issue.Imagine being pushed to the point that you start thinking about killing your self.Even just contemplating it isn’t normal.

I think most people are or have been depressed in some form or other these days.But I don’t think it can be denied that men are unequivocally and significantly more depressed than women.Remember the feminist who tried to live as a man a few years back and ended up not only walking back her feminist beliefs but committing suicide?

So if a woman,in this day and age of social media and nigh unlimited attention,of little to no accountability or consequences for women,told me she was “depressed?”

I wouldn’t be inclined to believe her.
 

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I know / met quite a few women who are depressed, but as was said, the women are confused between having a career and starting a family. She wants a career but by the time she wants to start a family shes in her 30s and all the proverbial Chads are gone. And the remaining men in their 30s who are somewhat successful and respected want girls in their 20s.

That being said, I’ve never understood the concept of marriage in the West. Women have ridiculous legal, economic, and social power, yet still expect a man to legally commit to them and cash out if they are not happy. Marriage makes sense if a woman has no power. But if she has power, how does it make sense?

Anyway I would say the woman who are depressed are the ones who aren’t married and have children with the top men.
 

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This point of view comes from a fundamentally flawed understanding of happiness. All of these make women happy in the moment. In the long run, these all cause problems that make women unhappy.

Here is a simplified example explaining my point: eating lots of cakes makes you very happy when you eat them. But a few hours later, the happiness is gone. And a few years down the road, guess what! You're obese and your obesity will cause health issues which will in turn make you unhappy.
I think you're confusing happiness which is a temporary state of mind, to contentment which includes happiness but overall is more about fulfillment and satisfaction. You just tried to tell me my viewpoint comes from a flawed understanding of happiness, to just then say that women ARE happy, but then they won't be happy later.. Cmon bro.. get your **** together or else you're just flappin gums. or use better vocabulary. you can't say my understanding of happiness is flawed, then use that same understanding to make an analogy.. you're disagreeing with me in one sentence, in another you're using the same "flawed understanding" of happiness..

All you had to say was "yes they're happy but they're not content".. vocabulary is important. You could have also simply said "well happiness is temporary"
 

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When I was hitting it hard from 2010-2017, I found a lot of Xanax hidden in purses, nite stands, and bathroom drawers. Always made it a point to snoop for it. Let me know what i was dealing with right away. Lots of anxiety out there.
 

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OP all women fluctuate in moods the very end of the spectrum are usually accompanied with drugs. Even heavy drinking. Those are the ones to avoid.
A good strong man can fix alot of the middle of the road women anxiety.
Stfong independent women is a not a real thing
"That woman is by nature meant to obey may be seen by the fact that every woman who is placed in the unnatural position of complete independence, immediately attaches herself to some man, by whom she allows herself to be guided and ruled. It is because she needs a lord and a master. If she is young, it will be a lover; if she is old, a priest." — Arthur Schopenhauer

Today if she doesn't have a master, she will attempt to fix this via pills. This is just the same as if a factory-farm cow, stuck like a sardine in utterly unnatural and sh*tty conditions, hating itself, decides to take pills to make it "happy". Is the cow really happy or is it deluding itself? Is the "independent" woman happy or does she actually need to fix the root of the problem?
 
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