"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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are millitary hats cool?

killbill

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Okay so I was watching some show and this dude had a black millitary hat on and to me it looked cool. so what I want to know is what do you guys think about them? and do any of you have one? :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I would never wear one in a million years. Having said that, they have become very "trendy" as of late.
 

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John Rambo never wear a hat. And he's like the coolest military that there is.



I just wear my hair, or do-rag and helmet. The only time you could see me wearing something is when I take off my helmet and have a do-rag.
 

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djSlvt said:
I just wear my hair, or do-rag and helmet. The only time you could see me wearing something is when I take off my helmet and have a do-rag.
wigga please
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lol, i saw a pair yesterday on a little boy.. poor child
 

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I have a few marine field caps. They look good and they're comfortable as hell. I got mine from a military surplus store for mad cheap, I was just done buying fitted caps from colleges and pro teams.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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No, but those military chains are in apparently. Like the metal tag things, I don't know what they're called.
 

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dog tags are ****in awesome. you can make your own at walmart. its at the end of the registers its for pets but i say **** it. I was getting my dog one then I noticed theres no way someone will know where the hell you got it at. so i might make myself one.
 

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shoot. my dog is so damn spoiled he won't let me put his damn collar back on without him snapping and hawling at me, let alone a dog tag. he thinks everytime I try to put the collar on he is going outside...and he doesn't like going outside unless he has to ****, and if that's' the case he goes out in the front yard and comes right back end.. damn he has it made
 

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Metal gear what? No, I guess not. I had a hunch they might be called dog tags, but I didn't say that because then I thought, 'why are they called dog tags if they use them in the military?' I didn't know they actually put them on dogs too.

Haha, sweet next time I'm at Walmart I'll make one for myself. Hey jesusrules, what does yours say on it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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~attrACTION~ said:
Metal gear what? No, I guess not. I had a hunch they might be called dog tags, but I didn't say that because then I thought, 'why are they called dog tags if they use them in the military?' I didn't know they actually put them on dogs too.

Haha, sweet next time I'm at Walmart I'll make one for myself. Hey jesusrules, what does yours say on it?
mine says big mother f*cker. I just felt like putting something that would make me laugh.:yes:
 
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