ARe men more racist then women?

[backbreaker]

I think so.

If you do a study of american history, I think white men created the myth (which is in some cases, is unfourationally true) of the sexually crazed black man. The reason for this, was to basically show that black men, deserved to be slaves, becuase they could not manage without their masters. However, the other side to the argument is that it peaked the interest of white women, which did not play over too well with white men. even back then wifes of slave owners would go take a peek in the fields and pick out one or two they liked for when the husband was too busy. Throughout history, an attractive black man never had a problem transcending racial barriers when it came to poon.


I say that to say, I don't think women for the most part, have a problem with dating outside of their race. I think that it's social pressure which stems from white men, telling white women that it's socially unacceptable. What I am getting at is, in a round about way, racism is very aFCish if you sit back and think about it. it's a sly round about way to keep all the poon to yourself by casting out your competitors. It's all about sex.

I can honestly say, i have never had any resistance when dealing with white women. I have had a few dad's give me that look, but even most dad's are cool with me, i'm a good kid/ man. You know who gives it though? the guys our age. Guys my age, when I'm dating a white women get butthurt. My fiancee's dad loves me like a son, because he knows I am a good man for his daughter, his interests and mine are in the same place. Women simply want the best man possible, rather that man is white, black, msxian, japanese, etc. I have many dealings with the opposite sex and I can honestly say from my experience a woman will chose the best option available. Now when you start adding peer pressure and **** in, it can get dicey, but we are just talking in basics here.

I post this for 2 reasons. First, I just thought it was interesting. Secondly, if you are a monitory of any kind and are afraid to talk to women of difference races of any kind, don't be.

 

[samspade]

Nah. Racism exists because of plenty of reasons beyond sex. Obviously, since the slaves were already enslaved by the time the white man came up with his myth, according to your narrative. Maybe men are more likely to use sex as another means of exploiting people's fears, who knows.

 

[FairShake]

Men will have sex with absolutely anything. Black, white, fish, or fowl. In slave days plenty of white masters dipped with their slave women. Probably the reason you yourself are part white. Women are FAR more picky and race certainly plays a part for many of them. See how black women feel about your stepping out with white women!

Less racist? Men.

Edit: And it's "piqued" the interest of white women not "peaked." Not ****ing with you just like to see it used correctly.

 

[Strelok]

For ages men were responsible of the safety of the tribe,and strangers/invaders were even more dangerous than beasts.

Racism is just one of the many instincts that a man have inside him,you can find the same in african men toward white men,hell western europeans are usually not that happy to see slavics and we are all whites.

That instinct is wrong when it degenerate in paranoid delirium like the nazis but if mother nature made us like that there was a reason.
The romans treated nordic people as crap and for what I recall they were both white,ethnic cleaning in Africa happen often and for what I recall they are all black (not talking about south africans of course).

And about women being less racist,well of course they are,they are too busy screening men for their status and social position,clothes,body language,income etc,how in the hell do you expect their hamster powered brains to care about race too?

A man with no tribe is done,a good looking woman will always find a place in the sultan's harem or in puff daddy video.

 

[backbreaker]

Doesn't this go both ways? I always thought that black men beat down on black women for dating white men?

I have often asked why when I go out, that I never see black women at the clubs but that there are always black men. While I do not claim to know the answer, I have been told on numerous occassions that the black women get shamed for going out.

I never said it didn't. the title of the thread didn't say are white men more racist than white women lol. Women, in general aren't racist. women want the best option that can be provided to them. Men on the other hand, use racism and reverse racism as shame tactics to keep others out.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Backbreaker,
Your point that White Women prefer not to associate with Black Gents because of programming by sexually inferior Whilte Men is I am sure Partially correct....However,ALL the Chinese women I have known are unbelievably racist against them too...How can you explain this?

 

[backbreaker]

if that is what you got out of my post, you entirely missed the point. It's not about white people, I used that as an example beucase in real life, I'm engaged to a white woman. But that is not the point of the thread.


Men in general, white, black, mexican, french, chinese, whatever the hell. It's the war of HB7's if you will to use a better catch phrase.

Look, this is not, about smoking hot women. smoking hot women, true HB8.5s and up, are going to have guys clambering over them, regardless of what color they are. They will be fine.


To use an anlology, let's use the globalization. There are some good things that come with globalization, I get the best product that I can get, for as cheap as possible. This is a good thing for me the end consumer.

That's the same when it comes to interracial of dating of any kind./ When you mix it up, a woman and a man, have the best option, to date a woman that is more compatible to them versus if they were to stick with their race, simply becuase the dating pool is bigger.

Using the same analogy, you know who gets the short end of the stick? Really, more than anyone, black women lol, but i will save that for another thread, the midwest auto union worker, who got hsi job outsourced to china, is going to get basically bent over by globalization.

In my analogy, the avg guy, the guy who will never have a chance at a true catch of a woman, and who depends on "jobs to fall down to him" is the guy that is going to get the short end of hte stick, especially so if you are a white male, because white men generally aren't attracted to black women. It's in the auto union workers best interest, to keep india from taking his jobs, just like it's in the avg guy's best interest, to keep men of different races, out of his dating pool, because the more viable options she has, the less likely she is to chose him. My fiancee is hot, but she isn't what you would classify as smoking hot, great gal, but just not the type that would probably physically attract the pick of the litter. She's not a trophy wife is basically what I am saying. It's a better setup for her, because she got a man, that best provides her the life she wants to live, and it's great for me, because it bets provides me with the type of woman I want. It's NOT great for, avg guys, like her last BF who, just isn't on the same level in life as me and never will be. It's in his best interest ot keep me out. And sure enough when he found out she was dating me he called her every name in the book, mudshark, etc, basically acting butthurt about the whole deal.

it works both ways. I catch hell becuase I betray my race so to speak from black women. hell my mom and i had a 2 year falling out because when i brought my newborn son to little rock for the family to see, she called my fiancee out in front of the whole family at red lobster. my mom, won't admi tit, but actually likes my fiancee as a person. she doesn't like the fact that I am marrying a white woman and not a black woman.


and hell you think WE have it bad lol, think about say, Chinese men in America. They are hard core with that **** because they have to be. Sorry, but in America, unless you are just, like damn man you are the man, if you don't stick with in your race in America and you are Chinese, you are going to be watching a lot of porn.

It's all, about sex. You had, real racism back in the day. NOw you just have people afraid of globalization so to speak.

 

[KarmaSutra]

One of the women I'm courting is a beautiful ebony goddess. I'm big, bald, burly, and a bastard.

She's a business woman. When we're out, I get nothing but hard looks from both Crackers and Brotha's.

I don't say this to be derogatory. I say it because they judge me with her, and her with me.

She, on more than one occasion, has gotten the worst of it from her Ebony sisters. Like she's betraying her kind or something.

Fortunately for me she's a very decisive, highly opinionated woman who could give a crusty booger for what these b!tches think of her or I.

Brother Backbreaker, it's all around us. Not likely to go away any time soon.

 

[backbreaker]

One of the women I'm courting is a beautiful ebony goddess. I'm big, bald, burly, and a bastard.

She's a business woman. When we're out, I get nothing but hard looks from both Crackers and Brotha's.

I don't say this to be derogatory. I say it because they judge me with her, and her with me.

She, on more than one occasion, has gotten the worst of it from her Ebony sisters. Like she's betraying her kind or something.

Fortunately for me she's a very decisive, highly opinionated woman who could give a crusty booger for what these b!tches think of her or I.

Brother Backbreaker, it's all around us. Not likely to go away any time soon.

I don't post to complain, not in the least bit. It's just that as I get older, I start to understand things that at one point I did not have a complete grasp on.

WE should embrace it becuase it's better for everyone in the long run, becuase it gives you the best product, the best bang for your buck to so speak. Shaming tactics don't work with me because I know why they do it, could care less. If a black woman wants me to date them, she needs to become more sexually attractive/ a better catch.

Just basically telling guys who are interested in women who might be outside their ace.. you'd be surprised to know more times than not, the women are interested too, just explaining where the actual issue is coming from and why it's an issue. Basically, everyone wnats what's best for them. women want the best for them, men want the best for them. I want the best woman I can get. The guy who my ex broke up with before me, wants the best woman he can get. He is going to have a better chance at a good woman if i'm not in the picture. I am going to have a better chance at a good woman if I am allowed to date any woman of any race.

 

[Blusher]

how in the hell do you expect their hamster powered brains to care about race too?

Seriously, did you just write that?

Up your game a little, stop dating bimbos and go for girls with a Phd or two, they'll make you regret these words.

I once approached a cute Chines girl who was hangin out with a couple of friends and an older dude. Turned out he was their Yale Professor and she was an intern for the UN. They gladly invited me for a couple of drinks and dinner. I held my side of the conversation and made a great impression, kissed the girl on the way home and got a date with her the following week.

But this would have been a humbling (crushing) experience for any woman-hater thinking they have "hamster powered" brains.

So beware of hasty generalizations...

 

[Strelok]

Seriously, did you just write that?

Up your game a little, stop dating bimbos and go for girls with a Phd or two, they'll make you regret these words.

I once approached a cute Chines girl who was hangin out with a couple of friends and an older dude. Turned out he was their Yale Professor and she was an intern for the UN. They gladly invited me for a couple of drinks and dinner. I held my side of the conversation and made a great impression, kissed the girl on the way home and got a date with her the following week.

But this would have been a humbling (crushing) experience for any woman-hater thinking they have "hamster powered" brains.

So beware of hasty generalizations...

Actually what I meant was that cert...oh wait you're the guy that speak like a feminist,I remember the talking you had with Danger and how you manage to turn everything into personal matters like "you are sexist because you're insecure" or "my girlfriend is special even if every man in the town knows her and because I'm morally superior I'm proud of her".

No offence mate,you're free to think whatever you want but if I were interested to have certain talkings based on shaming or personal hits I would date a middle aged woman or do some volunteer working in a kindergarden.

Now this would be the part where I say that I dont hate women in fact I would risk my life for my gf cause she behave as a woman is expected but certain other girls....well you know the rest right.
No offence or provocation from my part,I just think that it would be unproductive to talk since we have a very different mindset.

 

[KarmaSutra]

So beware of hasty generalizations...

When it comes to womens' thought processes, and the mannerisms they rely on to amp up their own ego, generalizations are reliable because they're generally true.

As you know, if Roissy says it, it's Gospel.

 

[NewMan]

Race has nothing to do with it.

women and men want what's best for them. In general, men want to hottest chick we can get - whether she's black, brown, white or yellow.

Women, in general, want the best provider/ money earner. Again Race is unimportant. but if you have to go there, this is the reason smoking hot white chicks are with Pro athletes, and BBW's are with regular black guys.

White guys don't want black chick's or BBW white chicks.

 

[mrRuckus]

You know who gives it though? the guys our age. Guys my age, when I'm dating a white women get butthurt..

I'm sure it happens, but I don't personally know anyone who cares. I've heard plenty of racist things, some just jokes and others real, but i really don't know anyone who cares what color people date what color people. Where you finding people who get butthurt?

Just remember it's still the minority of people who care. The rest of us are too busy worrying about our own crap. I don't view black guys as any sort of threat to my access to women. There's no shortage.

 

[SAYNO]

Dear Backbreaker,
Your point that White Women prefer not to associate with Black Gents because of programming by sexually inferior Whilte Men is I am sure Partially correct....However,ALL the Chinese women I have known are unbelievably racist against them too...How can you explain this?

Bingo, Bango! IMHO, Chinese women are more racist than white women could ever be! (or any race of women for that matter)

I have never really been attracted to Chinese women, but I saw a smoking hot one last night and she was smiling from ear to ear! :rockon:

 

[KarmaSutra]

but if you have to go there, this is the reason smoking hot white chicks are with Pro athletes, and BBW's are with regular black guys.

White guys don't want black chick's or BBW white chicks.

Jesus-thefvckbastard-Christ.

I'm boiling water to make a big pot of coffee.

I'm going to put my feet up, light a fat Bohemian, sip, and watch the expletives fly.

 

[backbreaker]

You can't fix ignorance Karma, no need.

I did not post this as a debate, I know I'm right. It's racism, but it's as the poster put it, it's kinda genetic. It makes sense. Everyone has to look out after their best interests. A man has to have a tribe to go home to so to speak.

 

[Cyclops]

backbreaker, you are right, men are more likely to be rascists than our female counterparts. The reason, theres too possibilities to explain and im sure you have your own. I think it fundamentally comes down to the nature of the sexes. Females are more passive and more in line of making things OK, as long as they dont become a problem, they have no feason to hate. Id say men are more inclined to be threatened/uncomfortable by the differences in their background.

 

[FairShake]

White guys don't want black chick's or BBW white chicks.

Women do the choosing, not men.

By and large the majority of black women are either not attracted to white guys or not allowed to be attracted to white guys. Either way they will turn men down more than men turn them down.

Guys usually live by the "It's all pink inside" axiom.

 

[Strelok]

Women do the choosing, not men.

By and large the majority of black women are either not attracted to white guys or not allowed to be attracted to white guys. Either way they will turn men down more than men turn them down.

Guys usually live by the "It's all pink inside" axiom.

The preference of people can be easily seen looking where they spend their money.


I don't think there are many men travelling to Africa looking for black women while every latvian can tell you about the amount of foreign adult men looking for women in Riga or Vilnius.
Ukraine is becoming a promise land for wealthy men who can get the top in their own countries.

What you say is right,the average man gets whatever he can but when it comes to spend money or any particular effort you see what he really likes.
I suppose there are also influence from tv behind that but the fact remain.