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Are men 40 to 55 considered creepy to women in their early 20's?

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Just spent some time reading the female forum referenced by @sarnant and I have never encountered so much hatred for men in one place in my life.

It's not balanced at all, it's ALL hatred. And the term "scrote" is used often in place of "guy" or "man." It's demeaning AF but then they complain how they are demeaned and debased by men.

Below is from @sarnant two days ago on that forum. Pretty much says it all.

I won't bother posting responses, they all follow suit.

But to @sarnant , what the heck girl. Why? How are you 18 in HS writing this? So disappointing. :(

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We are ALLOWED to be angry!!!

I love how on this forum we are FINALLY ALLOWED to be ****ING ENRAGED!! And frankly how could we not? Having to deal with blatant misogyny every day and seeing how normalized this pick me porn sick culture nowadays. How women are, on top of having to deal with pressures to go 50/50 to avoid looking like a "gold digger" are paying for their scrote's lifestyle while being a bangmaid, therapist, cook, clean, and raise her children without sufficent resources.

How are we NOT SUPPOSED TO BE MAD at men who demean us at every turn, call us "weaker" sex physically and emotionally, and hearing about how men don't "care" about women's accomplishments or career other than their beauty and youth, demeaning and devaluing everything we've done and all the hard work that's been put into our efforts?? YES, I AM ****ING ANGRY AT MEN. I'M FURIOUS!!! And I have EVERY RIGHT TO BE!!
 

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Just spent some time reading the female forum referenced by @sarnant and I have never encountered so much hatred for men in one place in my life.

It's not balanced at all, it's ALL hatred. And the term "scrote" is used often in place of "guy" or "man." It's demeaning AF but then they complain how they are demeaned and debased by men.

Below is from @sarnant two days ago on that forum. Pretty much says it all.

I won't bother posting responses, they all follow suit.

But to @sarnant , what the heck girl. Why? How are you 18 in HS writing this? So disappointing. :(

____

We are ALLOWED to be angry!!!

I love how on this forum we are FINALLY ALLOWED to be ****ING ENRAGED!! And frankly how could we not? Having to deal with blatant misogyny every day and seeing how normalized this pick me porn sick culture nowadays. How women are, on top of having to deal with pressures to go 50/50 to avoid looking like a "gold digger" are paying for their scrote's lifestyle while being a bangmaid, therapist, cook, clean, and raise her children without sufficent resources.

How are we NOT SUPPOSED TO BE MAD at men who demean us at every turn, call us "weaker" sex physically and emotionally, and hearing about how men don't "care" about women's accomplishments or career other than their beauty and youth, demeaning and devaluing everything we've done and all the hard work that's been put into our efforts?? YES, I AM ****ING ANGRY AT MEN. I'M FURIOUS!!! And I have EVERY RIGHT TO BE!!
@catsmeow2 I've spent the last few weeks frequenting that forum and the stark contrast between sosuave and here (how they talk about women) is crazy, but I'm beginning to think that forum has more of our interests in mind. For instance, I hear here all the time how 'men don't "care" about women's accomplishments or career other than their beauty and youth, demeaning and devaluing everything we've done and all the hard work that's been put into our effort' like I said.

It's sad because I've grown up with my parents emphasizing hard work and not needing a man to support you, but it feels kind of demeaning realizing that no matter how much I accomplish as a woman society will still frown upon me not getting a man at the end of the day.

Also, I referenced the pornsick pick me culture because of how violent pornography is nowadays, there is choking, slapping, hitting, etc. And I hear it in school all the time, my girlfriend wouldn't do xyz position with me. It's absolutely demoralizing and disgusting. Even wanting plain old vanilla sex is looked at as being 'old fashioned' when it used to be the norm. I don't think I would date a guy who watches porn but its almost impossible with how mainstream its becoming.
 

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but I'm beginning to think that forum has more of our interests in mind.
for sure, a bunch of angry, miserable, probably out of shape 35+yrs old women can't sleep at night because they have the interest of young women in their mind. :lol:
It's sad because I've grown up with my parents emphasizing hard work and not needing a man to support you, but it feels kind of demeaning realizing that no matter how much I accomplish as a woman society will still frown upon me not getting a man at the end of the day.
F*ck the society! It's you that's going to frown upon yourself (unless you have more testosterone than estrogen in you blood ;)) if you don't have a satisfying relationship with a man.
Also, I referenced the pornsick pick me culture because of how violent pornography is nowadays, there is choking, slapping, hitting, etc.
Yeah, there are some sick people out there. Just today for instance I read about this shyt: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowb...ved-TWO-years-reveals-requests-gets-fans.html Should I get ANGRY at how dumb some men are?
 

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I've spent the last few weeks frequenting that forum and the stark contrast between sosuave and here (how they talk about women) is crazy, but I'm beginning to think that forum has more of our interests in mind
You're right, follow their advice, they know what they're saying. You'll end up better following their advices than being in this misogynistic forum.
 

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@sarnant , I don't necessarily disagree with you, BUT there are good men out there, and also on this forum, who value women and their/our accomplishments (among other things other than just external beauty), I married one!

You gotta be open to hearing (and experiencing) ALL of it -- the good, the bad and in between and NOT lose your shyt over it. Otherwise, it will end up destroying you as no doubt many women on that forum have become, sadly.

Live your life according to your own "rules" and the standards you set for yourself and choose men who align with that. Learn to ignore the rest.

Try listening to what men experience too, with women. It goes both ways.

Understanding both sides is crucial imho. What both genders experience.

As for porn, my husband and I occasionally watch porn together. :D

I don't find it demeaning, it actually enhances our already hot sex life, it all depends on how YOU view sex and how you view men in general.

That said, I'm still shocked at how you, an 18 year old who has admittedly never even held hands with a man, can feel this way and the contrast between your posts when you initially joined and now.

That's all.

Again, it's a journey. Good luck.
 
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@sarnant , I don't necessarily disagree with you, BUT there are good men out there, and also on this forum, who value women and their/our accomplishments (among other things other than just external beauty), I married one!


As for porn, my husband and I occasionally watch porn together. :D

I don't find it demeaning, it actually enhances our already hot sex life, it all depends on on how view sex and how you view men in general.

That said, I'm still shocked at how you, an 18 year old who has admittedly never even held hands with a man, can feel this way and the contrast between your posts when you initially joined and now.
@catsmeow2 I actually used to be open to porn use and other stuff but I joined the forum last month because I think it's wise to learn about both sides and the moderator said watching porn is "pick me,"

Yea, like I said I've been browsing this forum frequently and so when you talk about the contrast between my posts now I was kind of using their terminology to write which may have made me sound more mature?
 

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Scrote short for scotum. Why are people giving trolls any air time, some real thirsty pathetic men on here.

I didn't even see this thread.

Bruh, some posters in here are actually sickening.
 

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What woman wants to bang their dad's buddy from the country club? Ain't nothing wrong with the ol' "Half your age plus 7 "rule to be safe.
Surprised to see this here. What terrible thing will happen if a guy ignores this "rule?"
 

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Surprised to see this here. What terrible thing will happen if a guy ignores this "rule?"
I ignore this rule and get angry stares of disapproval filled with hatred of judgment and I just smile back

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@sarnant

I don't know if you are who you say you are or you are a troll, either way you have serious psychological issues. Go outside and meet real people and interact with them, and until you do that, keep your mouth shut about your opinions about what you think people are.
 

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@sarnant

I don't know if you are who you say you are or you are a troll, either way you have serious psychological issues. Go outside and meet real people and interact with them, and until you do that, keep your mouth shut about your opinions about what you think people are.
What exactly did I write that you take offense to?
 

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Maybe you should get banned for your hateful views on women!
@DoubleBarrel i'm not sure what I said that provoked so much vitriol from these guys. I just stated that most young women around my age (I'm 18, but I was talking about the 18-22 range) aren't looking to date creepy men their father's age and everyone here's calling me a male troll. Whatever they want to believe is fine, guess they just don't want to face reality :rofl:
 

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@DoubleBarrel i'm not sure what I said that provoked so much vitriol from these guys. I just stated that most young women around my age (I'm 18, but I was talking about the 18-22 range) aren't looking to date creepy men their father's age and everyone here's calling me a male troll. Whatever they want to believe is fine, guess they just don't want to face reality :rofl:
Maybe it's the fear of old age and losing their sex appeal. But to men like me, who look late 20s in their 40s and have the charm women would die for, it's a different story. ;) Keep rockin' dudette! You're not my type, but I can tell many would consider you hot. My prayer for you is you find all the love in the world, you cherish it, and you reciprocate those feelings to the right man. You have life before you! And that's a blessing few people recognize until way after it's passed. I know. I did.
 

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Maybe it's the fear of old age and losing their sex appeal. But to men like me, who look late 20s in their 40s and have the charm women would die for, it's a different story. ;) Keep rockin' dudette! You're not my type, but I can tell many would consider you hot. My prayer for you is you find all the love in the world, you cherish it, and you reciprocate those feelings to the right man. You have life before you! And that's a blessing few people recognize until way after it's passed. I know. I did.
Well that's what I was saying. :) I said the average old man probably is viewed as a "creep" but older guys like you who have charm and finesse can pull anytime, haha. Thank you for your kind words...I really appreciate your refreshing positivity! Can't wait to go to college, explore different locations, live in the mountains, not waste my youth. Bless you and bless your soul! I hope you're having a great night
 

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Well that's what I was saying. :) I said the average old man probably is viewed as a "creep" but older guys like you who have charm and finesse can pull anytime, haha. Thank you for your kind words...I really appreciate your refreshing positivity! Can't wait to go to college, explore different locations, live in the mountains, not waste my youth. Bless you and bless your soul! I hope you're having a great night
The mountains rock! Great opportunity! Please, do take it! Kiss a cute boy up there when the snow is coming down gently and beautifully. It'll be a great romantic story you can tell your granddaughters one day, and they will think grandma is so damn cool! But that's ages away. Yet I think we should recognize life is really but a blink.
 

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The mountains rock! Great opportunity! Please, do take it! Kiss a cute boy up there when the snow is coming down gently and beautifully. It'll be a great romantic story you can tell your granddaughters one day, and they will think grandma is so damn cool! But that's ages away. Yet I think we should recognize life is really but a blink.
Life truly does come and go so fast. Sometimes its like a dissonance, I feel like I was just nine yesterday hiking across the Alps with my family and now I'm considered an "adult," it's crazy. Looking back 18 seemed so far away and like a milestone I would never reach and my 20s are looming closer than ever. And soon I'll be your age and hopefully have lots of more memories to look fondly upon (with hopefully a family of my own by my side)! ;)
 

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Life truly does come and go so fast. Sometimes its like a dissonance, I feel like I was just nine yesterday hiking across the Alps with my family and now I'm considered an "adult," it's crazy. Looking back 18 seemed so far away and like a milestone I would never reach and my 20s are looming closer than ever. And soon I'll be your age and hopefully have lots of more memories to look fondly upon (with hopefully a husband and a couple children by my side)! ;)
Man, kid, you are blessed, and I don't know if ya even know it. I still have no kids at 43. I wish it was different, but still I love my life. Young women are usually always on fire for life and have a zest for it. That makes them irresistibly sexy and attractive. Never lose that! Never let the evils of Feminism cloud your vision. Don't ever hate men, even when the wrong ones hurt ya. Instead, learn from the experience to propel you to greater love. When we hate the opposite sex, it's really just an expression and contempt for our own sex. And that's sad. It makes us rot. I never want that for you, sweet child!
 
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