"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Are Indian men that desperate?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Good Gao

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I have lurked on this forum for quite some time before finding the time to join and it seems like this place has a good bit of indians wondering if women want them. Now I am asian and one of my best friends and frat brothers from college is an indian guy who is now engaged to a blonde bombshell that used to be in a sorority. Then again he was born and raised here so that's that.
 

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Noob You're Forgetting....

Dude, that caste system is still in full effect in India, plus there's the twins defect. Dude is probably from a higher caste and could have those broads doing a little bit better than what they're doing now.
 

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Ask the man and he may say "4 holes are better than 3"... Or maybe its 5 better than 3? Or 6? Hell I don't know. :confused:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I notice that Asian guys and Indian guys complain the most when it comes to getting American women. Why is this?

At least Asian women and Indian woman are holding on to some type of morals, American women have lost all to being a women, hell the majority of them want to be men, and I'm not even talking on the lesbians.
 
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Indians are asians.

For the most part, Asian culture is reserved and tend to stay in within their clique. Because of this, I've had much more success with American women than I do Asian.

Furthermore, it how the culture is raised and I am trying to spread awareness in my 'Asian' community on this.

1) Asian parents overemphasize ACADEMICS at an early stage [pre]teenage years. To them and their tradition, that is the main way to succeed. Social interactions come far second.
2) As a result, Asian teens are very slow to develop social awareness. They naturally become introverted. Although some are lucky enough to break from that norm.
3) Later in life, these smart Asians realize it's not what you know, but who you know. Social awareness and communication skills are much preferred if you want to pursue a manager or executive role. They continue to slave away because their social deficiencies prevents most to move up the corporate ladder.

I would not say Asians are desperate, but are more prone to giving up and complaining because they don't understand social dynamics.
 
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