"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Are Indian men that desperate?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good Gao

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I have lurked on this forum for quite some time before finding the time to join and it seems like this place has a good bit of indians wondering if women want them. Now I am asian and one of my best friends and frat brothers from college is an indian guy who is now engaged to a blonde bombshell that used to be in a sorority. Then again he was born and raised here so that's that.
 

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Noob You're Forgetting....

Dude, that caste system is still in full effect in India, plus there's the twins defect. Dude is probably from a higher caste and could have those broads doing a little bit better than what they're doing now.
 

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Ask the man and he may say "4 holes are better than 3"... Or maybe its 5 better than 3? Or 6? Hell I don't know. :confused:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Fatal Jay

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I notice that Asian guys and Indian guys complain the most when it comes to getting American women. Why is this?

At least Asian women and Indian woman are holding on to some type of morals, American women have lost all to being a women, hell the majority of them want to be men, and I'm not even talking on the lesbians.
 
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Indians are asians.

For the most part, Asian culture is reserved and tend to stay in within their clique. Because of this, I've had much more success with American women than I do Asian.

Furthermore, it how the culture is raised and I am trying to spread awareness in my 'Asian' community on this.

1) Asian parents overemphasize ACADEMICS at an early stage [pre]teenage years. To them and their tradition, that is the main way to succeed. Social interactions come far second.
2) As a result, Asian teens are very slow to develop social awareness. They naturally become introverted. Although some are lucky enough to break from that norm.
3) Later in life, these smart Asians realize it's not what you know, but who you know. Social awareness and communication skills are much preferred if you want to pursue a manager or executive role. They continue to slave away because their social deficiencies prevents most to move up the corporate ladder.

I would not say Asians are desperate, but are more prone to giving up and complaining because they don't understand social dynamics.
 
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