"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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are guys who love thin-no-hips women closet gays?

Cry For Love

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Heres something for thought. Some guys really like the small butt, thin hips look on girls. To me, it leaves me completely cold and i fail to understand how it can even remotely be sexy. So how about it,
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Solomon

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Cry For Love said:
Heres something for thought. Some guys really like the small butt, thin hips look on girls. To me, it leaves me completely cold and i fail to understand how it can even remotely be sexy. So how about it,
Funny you mention this
a buddy and I (who use to post on SS) go out on the field sometimes, he likes skinnier women he is a skinny dude (5'10, 160 pounds) while I'm a bigger dude who likes my women a bit "thicker" (6'1. 2 cough cough pounds)
He looks at a certain chick and says "ten,ten ten" I look at the same chick and say "eeeh she is a seven" and vice versa

I prefer a Vida Guerra type, or Kim K hell I'll even take a Faith Evans Circa 98
 

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Well, I'm 5'9" and before starting to work out I was 133ish. (I'm probably almost 140 now)

Thin hips, thin waist. YES PLEASE.

But don't get me wrong, I'm super glad most guys aren't into that. It's tough finding decently tall chicks skinnier than me.
Nothing annoys me more than seeing a super buff tank with a slim girl. Save 'em for the ones that appreciate em you know? =)
 

Don't Panic

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Yeah dude, I like skinny too. Personal taste no sense in discussing it further.
 

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I bet 100 monopoly dollars the op is a overweight female..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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cola said:
I bet 100 monopoly dollars the op is a overweight female..
:wave: That's what it sounds like to me too.

I like a girl somewhere around 34 22 34 give or take an inch or two. What I don't like is fat with a 40+ in hips, or big boned, or women who are too pear shaped or especially apple shaped. The average woman would call a girl with a perfect hour-glass figure a, "skinny rail thin chick with no curves.".
 

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Really skinny women for the most part: yuck. Idk why girls think they are so pretty.

I love a thick/firm ass and legs, busty chest is plus as well. Not overweight though, like a muscular/athletic build.
 

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I recently banged a chick who was too skinny for my tastes. We actually had an inside joke and called her Skeletor in my circle, but anyway... It wasnt bad. I didnt dig the boniness of her, but at least I could manhandle her, and throw her against the wall and shyt easily. I'd go too skinny, over too chubby, myself. I'd rather be able to throw the bytch around like a ragdoll, if i'm going against my specs.
 

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Maybe, just maybe there's more to a woman than hips and breasts.

But that's just me.
 

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I really don't care about the size of her hips. What really gets me is thin with big tits.

One chick I'm after is Chinese, ~5'3 110 lbs and a D cup.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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