"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Are good looking guys immune to sh!t tests, games, and rejections

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floydb25 said:
Same experiences here, Jariel. It's all lust and infatuation that makes them go crazy... for a time. IME, nobody lasted with certain women, so it didn't really matter what or who you were. So long as you're dealing with a shallow, selfish bish - there's NO chance of remaining together for years and years.

Not a lot of people are LTR material.


i tend to agree with this thought... if a woman is trashy, selfish, then there will allways be some dude at any point that can come along & make her p@ssy tingle, more than what you do

and because she is a low value trashy woman, she will give in to her basic instincts & dump your ass


with woman like this, you need to be on top form with your game period & eyes in the back of your head
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I agree with what's been said and it may be that I just keep falling for trashy or difficult women and that is the true source of my relationship failures. Thinking back, a lot of my ex girlfriends ditched their long term relationships to be with me or they were fresh out of marriage or ltrs.

I literally have women throwing themselves at me and there are many of them who would make sweet, loyal girlfriends, and yet I never seem to go for those. I always go for the "damsels in distress" or those women who aren't 100% emotionally available and provide a challenge.

When I think back, some of my ex girlfriends include an alcoholic, a druggie, a habitual liar and cheater, women still in relationships, and a married women with 3 kids going through a divorce and hooked on anti depressants.

Now you guys bring it to my attention, it's no wonder I've not been able to maintain a relationship when I go for these types!
 

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Jariel said:
I agree with what's been said and it may be that I just keep falling for trashy or difficult women and that is the true source of my relationship failures. Thinking back, a lot of my ex girlfriends ditched their long term relationships to be with me or they were fresh out of marriage or ltrs.

I literally have women throwing themselves at me and there are many of them who would make sweet, loyal girlfriends, and yet I never seem to go for those. I always go for the "damsels in distress" or those women who aren't 100% emotionally available and provide a challenge.

When I think back, some of my ex girlfriends include an alcoholic, a druggie, a habitual liar and cheater, women still in relationships, and a married women with 3 kids going through a divorce and hooked on anti depressants.

Now you guys bring it to my attention, it's no wonder I've not been able to maintain a relationship when I go for these types!

Well if the sweet ones are hot then take those one up for a LTR if that's what you are seeking....and just bang the crazies when you get bored...not sure why you are seeking relationships s much, though if hot women are regularly throwing themselves at you......
 

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zinc4 said:
Well if the sweet ones are hot then take those one up for a LTR if that's what you are seeking....and just bang the crazies when you get bored...not sure why you are seeking relationships s much, though if hot women are regularly throwing themselves at you......
It never starts that way. I really enjoyed playing the field before meeting my ex, the short term dating and meeting different women. As far as I was concerned my ex was going to be another short term fling, but I got hooked.

I am actually looking forward to getting back into the field again and exploring some of my options. I just need to clear my ex out of my head first.
 

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We get more **** tests in the beginning, bc they don't believe we actually want them. It's a free pass to sex if u kno how to talk

btw always let her hit u up more than u do her. ALWAYS
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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