"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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floydb25 said:
Same experiences here, Jariel. It's all lust and infatuation that makes them go crazy... for a time. IME, nobody lasted with certain women, so it didn't really matter what or who you were. So long as you're dealing with a shallow, selfish bish - there's NO chance of remaining together for years and years.

Not a lot of people are LTR material.


i tend to agree with this thought... if a woman is trashy, selfish, then there will allways be some dude at any point that can come along & make her p@ssy tingle, more than what you do

and because she is a low value trashy woman, she will give in to her basic instincts & dump your ass


with woman like this, you need to be on top form with your game period & eyes in the back of your head
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I agree with what's been said and it may be that I just keep falling for trashy or difficult women and that is the true source of my relationship failures. Thinking back, a lot of my ex girlfriends ditched their long term relationships to be with me or they were fresh out of marriage or ltrs.

I literally have women throwing themselves at me and there are many of them who would make sweet, loyal girlfriends, and yet I never seem to go for those. I always go for the "damsels in distress" or those women who aren't 100% emotionally available and provide a challenge.

When I think back, some of my ex girlfriends include an alcoholic, a druggie, a habitual liar and cheater, women still in relationships, and a married women with 3 kids going through a divorce and hooked on anti depressants.

Now you guys bring it to my attention, it's no wonder I've not been able to maintain a relationship when I go for these types!
 

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Jariel said:
I agree with what's been said and it may be that I just keep falling for trashy or difficult women and that is the true source of my relationship failures. Thinking back, a lot of my ex girlfriends ditched their long term relationships to be with me or they were fresh out of marriage or ltrs.

I literally have women throwing themselves at me and there are many of them who would make sweet, loyal girlfriends, and yet I never seem to go for those. I always go for the "damsels in distress" or those women who aren't 100% emotionally available and provide a challenge.

When I think back, some of my ex girlfriends include an alcoholic, a druggie, a habitual liar and cheater, women still in relationships, and a married women with 3 kids going through a divorce and hooked on anti depressants.

Now you guys bring it to my attention, it's no wonder I've not been able to maintain a relationship when I go for these types!

Well if the sweet ones are hot then take those one up for a LTR if that's what you are seeking....and just bang the crazies when you get bored...not sure why you are seeking relationships s much, though if hot women are regularly throwing themselves at you......
 

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zinc4 said:
Well if the sweet ones are hot then take those one up for a LTR if that's what you are seeking....and just bang the crazies when you get bored...not sure why you are seeking relationships s much, though if hot women are regularly throwing themselves at you......
It never starts that way. I really enjoyed playing the field before meeting my ex, the short term dating and meeting different women. As far as I was concerned my ex was going to be another short term fling, but I got hooked.

I am actually looking forward to getting back into the field again and exploring some of my options. I just need to clear my ex out of my head first.
 

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We get more **** tests in the beginning, bc they don't believe we actually want them. It's a free pass to sex if u kno how to talk

btw always let her hit u up more than u do her. ALWAYS
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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