"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Are girls starting to follow 3 day rule now too??

Prodigy746

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So i added 2 girls on face book that i talked to in one of my classes. I never got a chance to number close them because i was always surrounded by the people that i met in that same class. I was probably cool with half of the class, good social proof but couldn't isolate because i always had people w me.

Anyway they accepted my friend request quickly and i sent them a private msg, some fluff chat with intention of asking them to hang out with me and some other friends from same class..They answered the fluff chat quickly but when i invited them to hangout w us they both replied EXACTLY 3 days later lol!.

Crazy thing is i saw them post on other peoples facebook page and post comments on their own page so i figured they probably were not interested and i striked out two times. I know they read my pm since they posted updates on they fb as well as posted on other peoples walls. Exactly 3 days later one replied with Awesome! Let me know when... other one had simillar reply.

My intentions were to ask for number afterward but now i am not sure if they have low interest or they just following 3 day rule.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mikeyb

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Why am I not surprised...chicks are acting more and more like us. A reaction to what we're doing I guess. Eventually they become sick of getting screwed over by jerks so they become jerks. Not the girl you're talking about yet but it's just waiting to happen.
 

Julius_Seizeher

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Dude, they were reading about the 3 day rule in Cosmo when you were still catching frogs.
 
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