"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Are girls starting to follow 3 day rule now too??

Prodigy746

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So i added 2 girls on face book that i talked to in one of my classes. I never got a chance to number close them because i was always surrounded by the people that i met in that same class. I was probably cool with half of the class, good social proof but couldn't isolate because i always had people w me.

Anyway they accepted my friend request quickly and i sent them a private msg, some fluff chat with intention of asking them to hang out with me and some other friends from same class..They answered the fluff chat quickly but when i invited them to hangout w us they both replied EXACTLY 3 days later lol!.

Crazy thing is i saw them post on other peoples facebook page and post comments on their own page so i figured they probably were not interested and i striked out two times. I know they read my pm since they posted updates on they fb as well as posted on other peoples walls. Exactly 3 days later one replied with Awesome! Let me know when... other one had simillar reply.

My intentions were to ask for number afterward but now i am not sure if they have low interest or they just following 3 day rule.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mikeyb

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Why am I not surprised...chicks are acting more and more like us. A reaction to what we're doing I guess. Eventually they become sick of getting screwed over by jerks so they become jerks. Not the girl you're talking about yet but it's just waiting to happen.
 

Julius_Seizeher

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Dude, they were reading about the 3 day rule in Cosmo when you were still catching frogs.
 
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