"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Are girls starting to follow 3 day rule now too??

Prodigy746

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So i added 2 girls on face book that i talked to in one of my classes. I never got a chance to number close them because i was always surrounded by the people that i met in that same class. I was probably cool with half of the class, good social proof but couldn't isolate because i always had people w me.

Anyway they accepted my friend request quickly and i sent them a private msg, some fluff chat with intention of asking them to hang out with me and some other friends from same class..They answered the fluff chat quickly but when i invited them to hangout w us they both replied EXACTLY 3 days later lol!.

Crazy thing is i saw them post on other peoples facebook page and post comments on their own page so i figured they probably were not interested and i striked out two times. I know they read my pm since they posted updates on they fb as well as posted on other peoples walls. Exactly 3 days later one replied with Awesome! Let me know when... other one had simillar reply.

My intentions were to ask for number afterward but now i am not sure if they have low interest or they just following 3 day rule.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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mikeyb

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Why am I not surprised...chicks are acting more and more like us. A reaction to what we're doing I guess. Eventually they become sick of getting screwed over by jerks so they become jerks. Not the girl you're talking about yet but it's just waiting to happen.
 

Julius_Seizeher

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Dude, they were reading about the 3 day rule in Cosmo when you were still catching frogs.
 
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