SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
It's been a while since I posted... but anyway I texted this girl for the first time and she seemed pretty indiffernt but she agreed to go out with me. Is this normal?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Are girls normally indifferent the first time you text them?
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What do you mean by indifferent?
If you're speaking to someone through text, I'd hope that it's quick and to the point.
YOU: "Hey it's Sam the Hobbit. How's your day going? Let's plan to grab a drink this Thursday."
GIRL: "Sounds good to me."
That's typically how i do things. Unless you're one of those guys who tries to hold entire conversations via text, I don't see a lot of room to display excitement vs. indifference. It's texting. Ya dig? Did you want more exclamation points, "lols" and smiley faces?
If you're speaking to someone through text, I'd hope that it's quick and to the point.
YOU: "Hey it's Sam the Hobbit. How's your day going? Let's plan to grab a drink this Thursday."
GIRL: "Sounds good to me."
That's typically how i do things. Unless you're one of those guys who tries to hold entire conversations via text, I don't see a lot of room to display excitement vs. indifference. It's texting. Ya dig? Did you want more exclamation points, "lols" and smiley faces?
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Good point. Thanks.