SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
It's been a while since I posted... but anyway I texted this girl for the first time and she seemed pretty indiffernt but she agreed to go out with me. Is this normal?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Are girls normally indifferent the first time you text them?
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What do you mean by indifferent?
If you're speaking to someone through text, I'd hope that it's quick and to the point.
YOU: "Hey it's Sam the Hobbit. How's your day going? Let's plan to grab a drink this Thursday."
GIRL: "Sounds good to me."
That's typically how i do things. Unless you're one of those guys who tries to hold entire conversations via text, I don't see a lot of room to display excitement vs. indifference. It's texting. Ya dig? Did you want more exclamation points, "lols" and smiley faces?
If you're speaking to someone through text, I'd hope that it's quick and to the point.
YOU: "Hey it's Sam the Hobbit. How's your day going? Let's plan to grab a drink this Thursday."
GIRL: "Sounds good to me."
That's typically how i do things. Unless you're one of those guys who tries to hold entire conversations via text, I don't see a lot of room to display excitement vs. indifference. It's texting. Ya dig? Did you want more exclamation points, "lols" and smiley faces?
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
Good point. Thanks.