"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Are Girls Friendlier One Place More Than Another?

AbsolutBeirut

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I've heard that there are cities in the world where the girls you approach are easier than others. That is to not to say that you can get them to bed easier. What I mean is that they are more open to conversations with random starngers and do not put their ***** shields before you open your mouth. I've only experienced the girls from the NorthEast (NYC, Boston, etc...) and I can say that they have inflated sense of self, 7s think they are 9s and 6s think they are 8s. Not the friendliest types when you try to open them. That only means you got to work more on your game. Anyways would love to hear about how girls from other places (MidWest, South, West Coast or around the world) are different.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BuckwildNYC

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You have to catch girls on vacation. When they are away from the mundacity (is that a word) of their lives and just want to have fun. That's when girls are most open to hooking up, regardless of whether they have boyfriends or not. So yes places like Las Vegas, South Beach, Cancun are all good spots for laying chicks.
 

realsmoothie

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Sure, it's different in different places.

The city in which I live is reknowned for being a little more left-wing and "alternative" than others. As such, the girls here are a little more defensive... if you walk down the street and try to make eye contact, they'll usually look down at the ground.

BUT... on the other hand, the guys here are more AFC and "sensative" than the average, so a decent DJ can have a field day here. He has little competition.

AND... the fact that there are more girls here than guys really helps, too. I've talked to girls that have said they're amazed at how hard it is to meet guys in their twenties/early thirties.

And no, I'm not telling you where I live... ;)
 

blinkwatt

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cyp6 said:
yes. las vegas, and any other tourist city.
I 2nd the Vegas notion. Man it was soo easy to pick up women there.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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