"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Are Girls Friendlier One Place More Than Another?

AbsolutBeirut

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I've heard that there are cities in the world where the girls you approach are easier than others. That is to not to say that you can get them to bed easier. What I mean is that they are more open to conversations with random starngers and do not put their ***** shields before you open your mouth. I've only experienced the girls from the NorthEast (NYC, Boston, etc...) and I can say that they have inflated sense of self, 7s think they are 9s and 6s think they are 8s. Not the friendliest types when you try to open them. That only means you got to work more on your game. Anyways would love to hear about how girls from other places (MidWest, South, West Coast or around the world) are different.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BuckwildNYC

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You have to catch girls on vacation. When they are away from the mundacity (is that a word) of their lives and just want to have fun. That's when girls are most open to hooking up, regardless of whether they have boyfriends or not. So yes places like Las Vegas, South Beach, Cancun are all good spots for laying chicks.
 

realsmoothie

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Sure, it's different in different places.

The city in which I live is reknowned for being a little more left-wing and "alternative" than others. As such, the girls here are a little more defensive... if you walk down the street and try to make eye contact, they'll usually look down at the ground.

BUT... on the other hand, the guys here are more AFC and "sensative" than the average, so a decent DJ can have a field day here. He has little competition.

AND... the fact that there are more girls here than guys really helps, too. I've talked to girls that have said they're amazed at how hard it is to meet guys in their twenties/early thirties.

And no, I'm not telling you where I live... ;)
 

blinkwatt

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cyp6 said:
yes. las vegas, and any other tourist city.
I 2nd the Vegas notion. Man it was soo easy to pick up women there.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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