That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That happened to me recently. I've been practising C/F recently on every girl I meet, to the point that it's become second nature. Anyway, what I thought was harmless flirting has lead to her confessing to me that she has feelings for me, which just shows you the power of C/F. Check out this SMS she sent me (just to prove she wasn't just being friendly):Originally posted by TurtleShell
it seems to me that freinds girlfreinds have always been very open towards me comming onto them and have said heaps of suggestive things.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
To be honest, I'm relatively new at this game and so I'm not used to this sort of attention from women. This is the first time something like this has happened to me. But yes, I do feel guilty and bad for my friend.Originally posted by TurtleShell
does it make you feel bad when a freinds chick messages you stuff like that?
ive had a mates chick say that "if you were f$cking me id be so wet"...